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Mind & Self-awareness quotes for UPSC & State PCS

357 sourced quotes on self-knowledge, thought, attitude and the mind, each with a use case for GS4, Essay and interviews. Thinkers include Swami Vivekananda, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Marcus Aurelius, Seneca the Younger, Samuel Johnson, Oscar Wilde.

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Cynicism is humour in ill health.
— H. G. WellsBoon, The Mind of the Race, The Wild Asses of the Devil, and The Last Trump (1915)
Use itLife/GS4: cynicism is unhealthy humour; resist cynicism in public service.
He who exerts his mind to the utmost knows his nature.
— Mencius7A:1, as translated by Wing-tsit Chan in A Source Book in Chinese Philosophy (1963), p. 62
Use itGS4/Life: self-knowledge through mental effort.
Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.
— Sigmund FreudLetter to Wilhelm Fliess (15 October 1897), as quoted in Origins of Psychoanalysis
Use itLife/GS4: self-honesty as a practice of emotional intelligence.
As our acts and our thoughts are, so will our lives be.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter XCV: On the usefulness of basic principles
Use itLife: thoughts and actions shape the life we get.
You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itLife: self-belief comes before any other faith or achievement.
The greatest deception men suffer is from their own opinions.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / XIX Philosophical Maxims. Morals. Polemics and Speculations
Use itGS4 on cognitive bias; our own opinions deceive us most—need for open-mindedness.
The greatest of faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none.
— Thomas CarlyleHeroes and Hero-Worship (1840) / The Hero as Prophet
Use itInterview: on weaknesses — worst fault is believing you have none.
I am more afraid of our own blunders than of the enemy's devices.
— ThucydidesHistory of the Peloponnesian War / Book I
Use itLife/GS4: fear your own blunders more than rivals' tactics.
Each man had only one genuine vocation — to find the way to himself
Use itEssay on purpose of life; self-discovery as the one genuine vocation.
They defend their errors as if they were defending their inheritance.
— Edmund BurkeSpeech on the Independence of Parliament (1780)
Use itGS4/Essay on confirmation bias: people defend errors like inheritance.
A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes.
— Mahatma GandhiIn Ethical Religion, (Madras: S. Ganesan, 1922), p. 62, Scan from Harvard University Library (both only work with an U.S. source IP address)
Use itLife/Essay: you become what you think; on mindset and self-making.
We forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people.
— Arthur SchopenhauerAs attributed in Dictionary of Quotations from Ancient and Modern English and Foreign Sources (1899) by James Wood, p. 624
Use itLife/Essay on conformity; we lose most of ourselves trying to fit in.
I do not think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.
— Abraham LincolnIncluded in Portrait-Life of Lincoln (1910) by Francis T Miller
Use itInterview/Life: lifelong learning means growing wiser daily.
As a rule we disbelieve all the facts and theories for which we have no use.
— William James"The Will to Believe" p. 10
Use itGS4/Essay on confirmation bias; we reject facts that don't suit us.
What a pity that in life we only get our lessons when they are of no use to us.
— Oscar WildeLady Windermere, Act IV
Use itLife: lessons often arrive too late; learn early.
Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.
— Arthur Schopenhauer"Psychological Observations"
Use itGS4/Essay on narrow perspective; people mistake their view for the whole world.
The transformation of the world is brought about by the transformation of oneself.
— Jiddu KrishnamurtiThe First and Last Freedom (1954)
Use itEssay conclusion: be the change—transforming society begins with self.
There is really no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather.
— John RuskinQuoted by John Lubbock, 1st Baron Avebury, The Use of Life, chapter IV: "Recreation" (1894)
Use itLife: reframe adversity; every condition holds some good.
There is no harm in being sometimes wrong — especially if one is promptly found out.
— John Maynard Keynes"Alfred Marshall", p. 175
Use itInterview: accepting errors gracefully; being wrong is fine if corrected quickly.
It is doubtless impossible to approach any human problems with a mind free from bias.
— Simone de BeauvoirIntroduction : Woman as Other
Use itGS4: acknowledge inherent bias when approaching human problems.
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.
— Mark TwainMark Twain (2016). “The Wit and Wisdom of Mark Twain”, p.97, Chartwell
Use itGS4: when you're with the majority, pause and reflect—guard against groupthink.
Many of the faults you see in others, dear reader, are your own nature reflected in them.
— RumiI, 1319 (tr. Helminski, 1990)
Use itGS4: self-reflection before judging others; projection of one's faults.
The fool has one great advantage over a man of sense — he is always satisfied with himself.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itLife: self-satisfaction as a fool's trait; growth needs self-critique.
Almost all absurdity of conduct arises from the imitation of those whom we cannot resemble.
— Samuel JohnsonNo. 135 (2 July 1751)
Use itLife: folly of imitating others instead of being yourself.
The true, strong, and sound mind is the mind that can embrace equally great things and small.
Use itLife/GS4: a sound mind handles big strategy and small details equally.
The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large.
— ConfuciusAttributed to Confucius in Out of the Blue: Delight Comes Into Our Lives (1996) by Mark Victor Hansen, Barbara Nichols, and Patty Hansen, p.
Use itLife/GS4: good thoughts shape a better self and world.
There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.
— Aldous HuxleyTime Must Have a Stop (1944)
Use itLife/GS4: change begins with self-improvement.
There are some things about your own village that you never know until you have been away from it.
— C. S. LewisStudies in Words (1960), ch. 11
Use itEssay on perspective: you understand home only after leaving it.
Madness is something rare in individuals — but in groups, parties, peoples, epochs it is the rule.
— Friedrich NietzscheChapter IV, aphorism 156, tr. R. J. Hollingdale
Use itEssay on mob mentality and communalism: irrationality is rare in individuals, common in crowds.
It is in the character of growth that we should learn from both pleasant and unpleasant experiences.
— Nelson MandelaNelson Mandela on character, Foreign Correspondent's Association's Annual Dinner, Johannesburg, South Africa (21 November 1997). Source: Fro
Use itLife: grow by learning from good and bad experiences.
It is a mistake to look too far ahead. Only one link in the chain of destiny can be handled at a time.
— Winston ChurchillSpeech in the House of Commons, February 27, 1945 "Crimea Conference"; in The Second World War, Volume VI: Triumph and Tragedy (1954), Chapt
Use itLife: focus on the next step rather than the distant future.
Reason well from the beginning and then there will never be any need to look back with confusion and doubt.
— Dalai Lama (14th)The Path to Enlightenment (1994)
Use itGS4 on decision making; sound reasoning upfront avoids later doubt.
An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behavior. p. 32 in the 1992 edition, , Beacon Press
— Viktor FranklMan's Search for Meaning (1946; 1959; 1984)
Use itGS4/Life: on trauma and empathy; judge reactions in light of circumstances.
I could give you no advice but this: to go into yourself and to explore the depths where your life wells forth.
— Rainer Maria RilkeLetter One (17 February 1903)
Use itLife: look inward to discover what truly drives you before choosing a path.
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonSelf-Reliance (1841)
Use itInterview/GS4: justify changing a stance with new evidence; rigid consistency is narrow-minded.
Friendship with oneself is all-important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.
— Eleanor RooseveltAs quoted in The Beacon Book of Quotations by Women (1992) by Rosalie Maggio, p. 130
Use itLife: befriend yourself first; self-acceptance enables friendship with others.
To change your mind and to follow him who sets you right is to be nonetheless the free agent that you were before.
— Marcus AureliusRemember that to change thy opinion and to follow him who corrects thy error is as consistent with freedom as it is to persist in thy error.
Use itInterview: changing your mind when corrected doesn't reduce your freedom.
I realize today that nothing in the world is more distasteful to a man than to take the path that leads to himself.
Use itEssay on self-knowledge; the hardest journey is the path to oneself.
There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered.
— Nelson MandelaLong Walk to Freedom (1995)
Use itLife: revisiting familiar places reveals how we have changed.
The bitterest tragic element in life to be derived from an intellectual source is the belief in a brute Fate or Destiny.
— Ralph Waldo Emerson"The Tragic", p. 217. From The Dial (April 1844) p. 515
Use itEssay on agency; belief in blind fate is life's bitterest tragedy.
People almost invariably arrive at their beliefs not on the basis of proof but on the basis of what they find attractive.
— Blaise PascalDe l'Art de persuader ["On the Art of Persuasion"], written 1658; published posthumously
Use itGS4 on cognitive bias: beliefs follow attraction, not proof.
A reproach can only hurt if it hits the mark. Whoever knows that he does not deserve a reproach can treat it with contempt.
— Arthur SchopenhauerParerga and Paralipomena (1851) / Aphorisms on the Wisdom of Life
Use itLife/GS4: unfair criticism need not hurt if you know it's undeserved.
The quest for certainty blocks the search for meaning. Uncertainty is the very condition to impel man to unfold his powers.
Use itEssay on uncertainty as a spur to growth; Life: embrace ambiguity instead of fearing it.
Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.
— Oscar WildeDe Profundis (1897)
Use itEssay on conformity or social media; critique borrowed opinions and lack of independent thought.
For such is the work of philosophy: it cures souls, draws off vain anxieties, confers freedom from desires, drives away fears.
— Cicero
Use itEssay on role of philosophy/ethics education; it frees from fear and desire.
Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.
— Laoziinterpreted by Stephen Mitchell (1992)
Use itGS4: self-awareness and self-mastery as foundation of emotional intelligence.
The things you think about determine the quality of your mind. Your soul takes on the color of your thoughts. (Hays translation)
— Marcus AureliusThe soul becomes dyed with the colour of its thoughts
Use itLife: your soul takes the colour of your thoughts—guard your thinking.
'Know thyself' was written over the portal of the antique world. Over the portal of the new world, 'Be thyself' shall be written.
— Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Use itLife/Essay: from 'know thyself' to 'be thyself' — authenticity.
You have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itEssay on self-learning: growth comes from within; your soul is the teacher.
Everyone sits in the prison of his own ideas; he must burst it open, and that in his youth, and so try to test his ideas on reality.
— Albert EinsteinMiscellaneous, Cosmic Religion, p. 104 (1931)
Use itEssay/Life: young people must challenge their own assumptions against reality.
If I become so convinced that ‘I’m always right,’ the logical conclusion of that often ends up being great cruelty and great violence.
— Barack ObamaSpeaking during a discussion at "Kirchentag," a multi-day meeting sponsored by the Protestant church in Germany in Berlin, Germany on May 25
Use itGS4 on dogmatism: certainty of always being right breeds cruelty and violence.
The primary indication, to my thinking, of a well-ordered mind is a man’s ability to remain in one place and linger in his own company.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter II: On discursiveness in reading
Use itLife: comfort with solitude as sign of a well-ordered mind.
Our comforting conviction that the world makes sense rests on a secure foundation: our almost unlimited ability to ignore our ignorance.
— Daniel KahnemanCh. 19, "The illusion of understanding" p. 201
Use itEssay on intellectual humility; our sense the world makes sense rests on ignoring ignorance.
Anyone who takes himself too seriously always runs the risk of looking ridiculous; anyone who can consistently laugh at himself does not.
— Václav HavelCh. 2 : Writing for the Stage
Use itInterview/Life: on humility and humour; laughing at oneself avoids looking ridiculous.
Iron rusts from disuse; stagnant water loses its purity and in cold weather becomes frozen; even so does inaction sap the vigor of the mind.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / I Prolegomena and General Introduction to the Book on Painting
Use itLife: keep the mind active; inaction rusts it.
To the question whether I am a pessimist or an optimist, I answer that my knowledge is pessimistic, but my willing and hoping are optimistic.
— Albert SchweitzerEpilogue, p. 242
Use itInterview: realistic about problems, optimistic in effort; India's development challenges.
Of any man at all it is to err, to persist in error is of none except unthinking; for the later thoughts, as they say, are usually the wiser.
— Cicero
Use itGS4/Life: erring is human, persisting in error is foolish; value second thoughts.
A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
— Alexander PopeThoughts on Various Subjects (1727)
Use itInterview/GS4: admitting a mistake shows growth.
Let none find fault with others; let none see the omissions and commissions of others. But let one see one’s own acts, done and undone. (Verse 50)
Use itGS4/Life: examine your own acts instead of finding fault with others.
Solitude is a silent storm that breaks down all our dead branches; Yet it sends our living roots deeper into the living heart of the living earth.
— Kahlil GibranSand and Foam (1926)
Use itLife: solitude sheds the dead and deepens roots during preparation.
A man will be imprisoned in a room with a door that's unlocked and opens inwards; as long as it does not occur to him to pull rather than push it.
Use itLife: often we are trapped only by our mindset; the door was open all along.
The whole world yearns after freedom, yet each creature is in love with his chains; this is the first paradox and inextricable knot of our nature.
— Sri AurobindoThoughts and Glimpses (1916-17)
Use itEssay on freedom: all crave liberty yet cling to their chains.
Make your ego porous. Will is of little importance, complaining is nothing, fame is nothing. Openness, patience, receptivity, solitude is everything.
— Rainer Maria RilkeAs quoted in Sunbeams : A Book of Quotations (1990) by Sy Safransky, p. 42
Use itLife: drop ego and complaint; openness and patience matter more than fame.
Man’s main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.
— Erich FrommCh. 4 "Problems of Humanistic Ethics"
Use itEssay on self-realisation; Life: personal growth as the main work of a lifetime.
A boat may stay in water, but water should not stay in boat. A spiritual aspirant may live in the world, but the world should not live within him. (266)
— RamakrishnaSayings of Sri Ramakrishna (1960)
Use itGS4 on detachment; live in the world without letting worldliness live in you.
Just as a fletcher straightens an arrow shaft, even so the discerning man straightens his mind — so fickle and unsteady, so difficult to guard. (Verse 33)
— DhammapadaTranslator: Acharya Buddharakkhita
Use itGS4/Life: discipline the restless mind as a fletcher straightens an arrow.
One truly is the protector of oneself; who else could the protector be? With oneself fully controlled, one gains a mastery that is hard to gain. (Verse 160)
— DhammapadaTranslator: Acharya Buddharakkhita
Use itLife/GS4: self-reliance and self-mastery; you are your own protector.
In a world, man must create his own essence: it is in throwing himself into the world, suffering there, struggling there, that he gradually defines himself.
— Jean-Paul SartreCharacterizations of Existentialism (1944)
Use itLife/Essay: we define ourselves through struggle and action in the world.
I have often wondered how it should come to pass, that every man loving himself best, should more regard other men's opinions concerning himself than his own.
Use itLife: why value others' opinions of us more than our own?
We cling to our own point of view, as though everything depended on it. Yet our opinions have no permanence; like autumn and winter, they gradually pass away.
— ZhuangziCh. 2 (tr. Gia-Fu Feng and Jane English, 1974)
Use itGS4/Life: opinions are impermanent; hold views loosely.
Do not go outside yourself, return to yourself: truth dwells in the interiority of man and, if you find that your nature is changeable, transcend yourself too.
Use itGS4 on introspection: truth found within; transcend your changeable self.
Every man naturally persuades himself that he can keep his resolutions, nor is he convinced of his imbecility but by length of time and frequency of experiment.
— Samuel JohnsonPrayers and Meditations, No. 1770 (1785)
Use itLife: overconfidence in keeping resolutions; build systems not promises.
If faith in ourselves had been more extensively taught and practiced, I am sure a very large portion of the evils and miseries that we have would have vanished.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itEssay on education: teaching self-faith would remove many social evils.
Let positive, strong, helpful thoughts enter into your brains from very childhood. Lay yourselves open to these thoughts, and not to weakening and paralysing ones.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4 on value inculcation: early positive thoughts shape character in children.
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.
Use itLife/GS4: distress comes from our judgment of events, which we can change.
We disparage reason. But all the time it's what we're most concerned with. There's will as motor and there's will as brakes. Reason is, I suppose, the steering gear.
— Robert FrostA Masque of Reason (1945)
Use itGS4 on decision-making: will is motor and brakes, reason is the steering.
Clichés, stock phrases, adherence to conventional, standardized codes of expression and conduct have the socially recognized function of protecting us against reality.
Use itEssay: clichés shield us from thinking about reality; critique of stock responses.
A mind of slow apprehension is therefore not necessarily a weak mind. The one who is alert with abstractions is not always profound, he is more often very superficial.
— Immanuel KantKant, Immanuel (1996), page 99
Use itLife: slow learners need not despair—depth matters more than quickness.
A fixed mindset, creates a tendency to avoid challenges, to ignore useful negative feedback and leads such people to plateau early and not achieve their full potential.
— N. R. Narayana MurthyLife lessons from Narayana Murthy (2013)
Use itGS4/Life: fixed mindset avoids challenges and feedback; growth mindset.
By far the most vital lesson I have ever learned is the importance of what we think. If I knew what you think, I would know what you are. Our thoughts make us what we are.
Use itLife/GS4: our thoughts shape who we are.
We differ, blind and seeing, one from another, not in our senses, but in the use we make of them, in the imagination and courage with which we seek wisdom beyond the senses.
— Helen KellerThe Five-sensed World (1910)
Use itEssay on disability: people differ not in senses but in imagination and courage.
Never think there is anything impossible for the soul. It is the greatest heresy to think so. If there is sin, this is the only sin — to say that you are weak, or others are weak.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itLife: calling yourself or others weak is the only sin.
Indeed, wisdom is born of meditation; without meditation wisdom is lost. Knowing this twofold path of gain and loss of wisdom, one should conduct oneself so that wisdom may increase.
— Gautama BuddhaCh. 20, Verse 282
Use itLife/GS4: reflection and meditation cultivate wisdom; argue for mindfulness in public servants.
We are made weak both by idleness and distrust of ourselves. Unfortunate, indeed, is he who suffers from both. If he is a mere individual he becomes nothing; if he is a king he is lost.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itLife: idleness and self-doubt destroy individuals and leaders.
When one has weighed the sun in the balance, and measured the steps of the moon, and mapped out the seven heavens, there still remains oneself. Who can calculate the orbit of his own soul?
— Oscar WildeDe Profundis (1897)
Use itEssay on science vs self-knowledge; scientific mastery still leaves the inner self uncharted.
We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change.
— Mahatma GandhiFrom an article on dealing with snake bites, published in Indian Opinion dated August 9th, 1913, in the Gujarti language edition, English tr
Use itEssay: change begins within; transforming ourselves transforms the world.
The greatest danger, that of losing one's own self, may pass off as quietly as if it were nothing; every other loss, that of an arm, a leg, five dollars, a wife etc., is sure to be noticed.
— Søren KierkegaardThe Sickness unto Death (July 30, 1849)
Use itEssay on identity: losing oneself happens silently, unlike material losses.
For what else are you busied with except improving yourself every day, laying aside some error, and coming to understand that the faults which you attribute to circumstances are in yourself?
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter L: On Our Blindness and Its Cure
Use itLife: daily self-improvement; own faults rather than blaming circumstances.
No man is liberated from fear who dare not see his place in the world as it is; no man can achieve the greatness of which he is capable until he has allowed himself to see his own littleness.
— Bertrand RussellDreams and Facts (1919)
Use itLife: greatness requires seeing your own littleness and facing reality without fear.
The concept of the well-adjusted personality or of good adjustment sets a low ceiling upon the possibility for advancement and for growth. The cow, the slave, the robot may all be well adjusted.
Use itEssay on conformity; mere adjustment limits growth and human potential.
We all have a tendency to think that the world must conform to our prejudices. The opposite view involves some effort of thought, and most people would die sooner than think – in fact they do so.
— Bertrand RussellThe ABC of Relativity (1925), p. 166
Use itGS4 on confirmation bias: we expect the world to fit our prejudices; thinking takes effort.
Now, nothing should be able to harm a man except himself. Nothing should be able to rob a man at all. What a man really has, is what is in him. What is outside of him should be a matter of no importance.
— Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Use itLife: true wealth is what is within you.
Most people are on the world, not in it — have no conscious sympathy or relationship to anything about them — undiffused, separate, and rigidly alone like marbles of polished stone, touching but separate.
— John MuirJuly 1890, page 320
Use itEssay on alienation in modern life; being present and connected to surroundings.
Unless we exercise our power to choose wisely, our actions will be determined by conditions. Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.
Use itLife: freedom to choose how external events affect you.
Mind precedes all mental states. Mind is their chief; they are all mind-wrought. If with an impure mind a person speaks or acts suffering follows him like the wheel that follows the foot of the ox. (Verse 1)
— DhammapadaTranslator: Acharya Buddharakkhita
Use itGS4: mind is the root of action; impure intentions bring suffering.
He that has light within his own clear breast, May sit i' the centre, and enjoy bright day; But he that hides a dark soul, and foul thoughts, Benighted walks under the mid-day sun; Himself is his own dungeon.
— John MiltonLines 381-385
Use itGS4: inner integrity brings peace; a guilty conscience is its own prison.
There is no fatality which forces the Old World towards new catastrophe. Men are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of their own minds. They have within themselves the power to become free at any moment.
— Franklin D. RooseveltAddress to the Governing Board of the Pan American Union (1939)
Use itEssay/Life: we are prisoners of our minds, not fate; freedom begins with thought.
It is a mistake, too, to say that the face is the mirror of the soul. The truth is, men are very hard to know, and yet, not to be deceived, we must judge them by their present actions, but for the present only.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itGS4: judge people by present actions, not appearances.
We can make our minds so like still water that beings gather about us that they may see, it may be, their own images, and so live for a moment with a clearer, perhaps even with a fiercer life because of our quiet.
— William Butler Yeats"Earth, Fire and Water" from The Celtic Twilight (1893)
Use itLife: a calm, still mind helps others see themselves clearly.
Whatever an enemy might do to an enemy, or a foe to a foe, the ill-directed mind can do to you even worse. Whatever a mother, father or other kinsman might do for you, the well-directed mind can do for you even better.
— Gautama BuddhaPali Canon 42-43 Cittavagga The Mind
Use itGS4/Life: an undisciplined mind is the worst enemy; a disciplined mind the best ally.
Some people do not like to think. If one thinks, one must reach conclusions; and conclusions are not always pleasant. They are a thorn in the spirit. But I consider it a priceless gift and a deep responsibility to think.
— Helen KellerHelen Keller: Her Socialist Years (1967)
Use itGS4: critical thinking as a civil servant's duty; facing uncomfortable conclusions honestly.
Habit is thus the enormous fly-wheel of society, its most precious conservative agent. It alone is what keeps us all within the bounds of ordinance, and saves the children of fortune from the envious uprisings of the poor.
Use itGS1/Essay: habit preserves social order and also status quo inequality.
One cannot too soon forget his errors and misdemeanors. To dwell long upon them is to add to the offense. Repentance and sorrow can only be displaced by something better, which is as free and original as if they had not been.
— Henry David ThoreauJanuary 9, 1842
Use itLife: after a failed attempt, stop brooding and replace regret with fresh effort.
You did in your twenties what you knew how to do, and when you knew better you did better. And you should not be judged for the person that you were, but for the person that you're trying to be and the woman that you are now.
— Maya AngelouAs quoted by Oprah Winfrey
Use itLife: judge people by growth, not past mistakes; reform and second chances.
We are product of neither nature nor nurture; we are a product of choice, because there is always a space between stimulus and response. As we wisely exercise our power to choose based on principles, the space will become larger.
Use itGS4: emotional intelligence—space between stimulus and response enables principled choice.
People travel to wonder at the height of mountains, at the huge waves of the sea, at the long courses of rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars; and they pass by themselves without wondering.
— Augustine of HippoVariant: Men go abroad to admire the heights of mountains, the mighty billows of the sea, the broad tides of rivers, the compass of the ocea
Use itEssay on self-knowledge: we marvel at nature yet never examine ourselves.
Most of us seldom take the trouble to think. It is a troublesome and fatiguing process and often leads to uncomfortable conclusions. But crises and deadlocks when they occur have at least this advantage, that they force us to think.
— Jawaharlal NehruThe Unity of India : Collected Writings, 1937-1940 (1942), p. 94
Use itEssay on crisis as opportunity; crises force us to think anew (Nehru).
If life becomes hard to bear we think of a change in our circumstances. But the most important and effective change, a change in our own attitude, hardly even occurs to us, and the resolution to take such a step is very difficult for us.
Use itLife: when life is hard, change your attitude before blaming circumstances.
We are what we are, because of the vibrations of thought which we pick up and register, through the stimuli of our daily environment. Resolve to throw off the influences of any unfortunate environment, and to build your own life to order.
— Napoleon HillThink and Grow Rich (1938)
Use itLife: rise above an unfortunate environment and build your own life.
The three great things that govern mankind are reason, passion and superstition. The first governs a few, the two last share the bulk of mankind and possess them in their turns. But superstition most powerfully produces the greatest mischief.
— John LockeJournal entry (16 May 1681), quoted in Maurice Cranston, John Locke: A Biography (1957; 1985), p. 200
Use itEssay on scientific temper; superstition causes the greatest mischief.
So far as I can see, all political thinking for years past has been vitiated in the same way. People can foresee the future only when it coincides with their own wishes, and the most grossly obvious facts can be ignored when they are unwelcome.
— George Orwell"London Letter" (December 1944), in Partisan Review (Winter 1945)
Use itGS4/Essay: confirmation bias distorts policy; wishful thinking ignores unwelcome facts.
The essence of the Liberal outlook lies not in what opinions are held, but in how they are held: instead of being held dogmatically, they are held tentatively, and with a consciousness that new evidence may at any moment lead to their abandonment.
— Bertrand RussellUnpopular Essays (1950)
Use itGS4 on open-mindedness: hold opinions tentatively, open to new evidence.
For such is the nature of men, that howsoever they may acknowledge many others to be more witty, or more eloquent, or more learned; Yet they will hardly believe there be many so wise as themselves: For they see their own wit at hand, and other men's at a distance.
— Thomas HobbesThe First Part, Chapter 13, p. 61
Use itGS4 on humility: we rarely believe others as wise as ourselves.
If we are willing to make such efforts in order to understand foreign cultures, unknown species and distant planets, it might be worth working just as hard in order to understand our own minds. And we had better understand our minds before the algorithms make our minds up for us.
— Yuval Noah Harari21 Lessons for the 21st Century (2018)
Use itEssay on AI: know yourself before algorithms decide for you.
Use the atman to raise the atman. Do not lower the atman. The atman is the atman’s friend and the atman is the atman’s enemy. The atman, which has been used to conquer the atman, is the atman’s friend. For someone who has failed to control the atman, the atman harms like an enemy.
— Bhagavad GitaKrishna; Chapter 6, verses 5–6; Bibek Debroy translation
Use itGS4 on self-mastery: the self is its own friend or enemy.
I do not know what I may appear to the world, but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the sea-shore, and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.
— Isaac NewtonMemoirs of the Life, Writings, and Discoveries of Sir Isaac Newton (1855) by Sir David Brewster (Volume II. Ch. 27). Compare: "As children g
Use itEssay conclusion on knowledge; humility before the vast unknown.
Many unfortunate human situations unfold [...] where people who face very bad options take desperate gambles, accepting a high probability of making things worse in exchange for a small hope of avoiding a large loss. Risk taking of this kind often turns manageable failures into disasters.
— Daniel KahnemanCh. 29, "The fourfold pattern" pp. 318-319
Use itGS4/GS3: desperate gambles to avoid loss often turn manageable failures into disasters.
The most difficult subjects can be explained to the most slow-witted man if he has not formed any idea of them already; but the simplest thing cannot be made clear to the most intelligent man if he is firmly persuaded that he knows already, without a shadow of doubt, what is laid before him.
— Leo TolstoyChapter III, Christianity Misunderstood by Believers
Use itEssay: preconceived notions block learning more than lack of intelligence.
People try to get away from it all—to the country, to the beach, to the mountains. You always wish that you could too. Which is idiotic: you can get away from it anytime you like. By going within. Nowhere you can go is more peaceful—more free of interruptions—than your own soul. (Hays translation)
Use itLife on stress: true retreat is within, not a vacation.
A spider conducts operations that resemble those of a weaver, and a bee puts to shame many an architect in the construction of her cells. But what distinguishes the worst of architects from the best of bees is this, that the architect raises his structure in imagination before he erects it in reality.
Use itEssay on imagination: humans design in the mind first; vision precedes creation.
Ideas, like men, can become dictators. We Americans have so far escaped regimentation by our rulers, but have we escaped regimentation by our own ideas? I doubt if there exists today a more complete regimentation of the human mind than that accomplished by our self-imposed doctrine of ruthless utilitarianism.
— Aldo Leopold"The Farmer as a Conservationist" [1939]; Published in The River of the Mother of God and Other Essays by Aldo Leopold, Susan L. Flader and
Use itEssay on ideology; ideas can regiment minds like dictators.
Gautama... attained nirvana... fully liberated from suffering. Henceforth... as 'Buddha'.., 'The Enlightened One'.., spent... his life explaining his discoveries... in a single law: ...to be ...liberated from suffering is to be ...liberated from craving; and the only way ...is to train the mind to experience reality as it is.
— Yuval Noah HarariSapiens: A Brief History of Humankind (2011) / Chapter 12: "The Law of Religion"
Use itEssay/GS4: Buddha's insight; freedom from suffering lies in freedom from craving.
Live out of your imagination, not your history.
— Stephen CoveyAs quoted in Wake-up Calls : You Don't Have to Sleepwalk through your Life, Love, or Career! (1992) by Eric Allenbaugh, p. 65
Use itLife: let vision of the future, not past failures, guide you.
Love your Enemies, for they tell you your Faults.
— Benjamin FranklinPoor Richard's Almanack (1756); this has also been quoted in a paraphrased form used by Bill Clinton in [1998 address to Beijing University,
Use itLife: value critics; enemies reveal your faults.
Those who are free from common prejudices acquire others.
— NapoleonMemoirs of Napoleon (1829-1831)
Use itGS4: escaping one prejudice may breed another; self-awareness of bias.
No Man is wise at all Times, or is without his blind Side.
— ErasmusThe Alchymyst, in Colloquies of Erasmus, Volume I
Use itInterview: admit a mistake gracefully; GS4 on humility and acknowledging one's blind spots.
Be less curious about people and more curious about ideas.
— Marie CurieResponse to a reporter seeking an interview during a vacation with her husband in Brittany, who mistaking her for a housekeeper, asked her i
Use itLife: be less curious about people, more about ideas.
A man who does not think for himself does not think at all.
— Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Use itInterview/Essay: independent thinking — not thinking for oneself is not thinking.
I do not quote from the scriptures; I simply see what I see.
— KabirAzfar Hussain translations
Use itEssay: experience over dogma; Bhakti saints' direct perception of truth.
The way of learning is none other than finding the lost mind.
— Mencius6A:11, as translated by Wing-tsit Chan in A Source Book in Chinese Philosophy (1963), p. 58
Use itEssay on education: learning as recovering one's true self.
To see what is in front of one's nose needs a constant struggle.
— George Orwell"In Front of Your Nose," Tribune (22 March 1946)
Use itEssay: seeing obvious realities takes effort against bias and convenience.
Every adversity has the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit.
— Napoleon HillA maxim of Hill's, specifically cited as such, in Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude (1960), co-authored with W. Clement Stone, Ch.
Use itLife: every adversity carries the seed of a benefit.
If you are idle, be not solitary; if you are solitary, be not idle.
— Samuel JohnsonLetter to James Boswell (27 October 1779) p. 433
Use itLife: guard mental health during solitary preparation—stay busy or stay connected.
Do not read so much, look about you and think of what you see there.
— Richard FeynmanFrom a letter to Ashok Arora of Uttar Pradesh, India, dated 4 January 1967
Use itLife/Essay: observe and think, don't just read—link study to the world around.
If one does not understand a person, one tends to regard him as a fool.
— Carl JungMysterium Coniunctionis, from The Collected Works of C. G. Jung (1966)
Use itGS4: empathy before judgement; misunderstanding others leads us to dismiss them.
It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
— Jiddu KrishnamurtiAs quoted in The Eden Express (1975) by Mark Vonnegut, p. 208
Use itEssay on mental health; adjusting to a sick society is no sign of health.
One is never afraid of the unknown; one is afraid of the known coming to an end.
— Jiddu Krishnamurti3rd Public Talk, Berkeley, California (5 February 1969)
Use itEssay on resistance to change; we fear losing the familiar, not the unknown.
If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people.
— Virginia Woolf"The Leaning Tower", lecture delivered to the Workers' Educational Association, Brighton (May 1940)
Use itGS4: on self-honesty; integrity with oneself precedes honest judgement of others.
Diseases of the mind are more common and more pernicious than diseases of the body.
— Cicero
Use itGS2/Essay on mental health; illnesses of mind are common and harmful as bodily ones.
When people show you who they are, believe them, the first time. Not the 29th time!
— Maya AngelouDescribed by Oprah Winfrey as "[o]ne of the other great lessons I learned taught to me by my friend and mentor, Maya Angelou" during her com
Use itLife: trust people's demonstrated conduct over their promises.
It is better to be unhappy and know the worst, than to be happy in a fool's paradise!
— Fyodor DostoyevskyPart 4, Chapter 5 (tr. Frederick Whishaw, 1887)
Use itGS4/Life: facing hard truth beats comfortable illusion; use on honest feedback and data.
It is indeed foolish to be unhappy now because you may be unhappy at some future time.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter XXIV: On despising death
Use itLife: don't let fear of future unhappiness spoil the present.
Even in the most uneventful of our lives, we are called upon to choose our battles (p165)
— Arundhati RoyThe Ministry of Utmost Happiness (2017)
Use itLife: when overwhelmed by many demands; prioritise which fights deserve your energy.
Men use thought only to justify their wrongdoings, and speech only to conceal their thoughts.
Use itGS4: on rationalisation; people misuse reason to justify wrongdoing.
Perhaps a man really dies when his brain stops, when he loses the power to take in a new idea.
— George OrwellComing Up for Air, Part 3, Ch. 1
Use itInterview/Life: openness to new ideas keeps a mind alive; lifelong learning.
Man struggles to find life outside himself, unaware that the life he is seeking is within him.
— Kahlil GibranKahlil Gibran, The Awakened Soul ISBN-10: 1864760818 (January 2001)
Use itEssay on happiness: fulfilment lies within, not in external pursuits.
The forceps of our minds are clumsy forceps, and crush the truth a little in taking hold of it.
— H. G. WellsAppendix, Scepticism of the Instrument
Use itEssay: human understanding always distorts truth a little; humility in knowledge.
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself — and you are the easiest person to fool.
— Richard Feynman"Cargo Cult Science", adapted from a 1974 Caltech commencement address; also published in Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!, p. 343
Use itGS4/Life: first, don't fool yourself—self-deception is easiest of all.
Patriotism requires less and less of making the eagle scream, but more and more of making him think.
— Aldo Leopold"The Home Builder Conserves" [1928]; Published in The River of the Mother of God and Other Essays by Aldo Leopold, Susan L. Flader and J. Ba
Use itEssay on patriotism; true patriotism demands thinking, not chest-thumping.
When you identify yourself with a group of people or a set of ideas, aren't you separating yourself?
— Jiddu Krishnamurti1st Discussion with Young People, Amsterdam, The Netherlands (26 May 1971)
Use itEssay on identity politics; group identification can divide us from others.
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.
— Maya AngelouLetter to my daughter quotes(September 19, 2026)
Use itLife/Essay: we control our response to adversity, not events.
Be warned in time, James, and remain, as I do, incomprehensible: to be great is to be misunderstood.
— Oscar WildeLetter to James McNeill Whistler (23 February 1885)
Use itLife: being misunderstood is part of greatness.
Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more.
— Nikola Tesla"The Problem of Increasing Human Energy", Century Illustrated Magazine (June 1900)
Use itGS4: virtues and failings are inseparable in human nature.
Remember happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think.
— Dale CarnegieAs quoted in Plenty of Time to Sleep When You're Dead : A Compilation of Life-changing Quotes (2006) by Richard Caridi
Use itEssay on happiness: it depends on mindset, not status or possessions.
To cease from evil, to do good, and to purify the mind yourself, this is the teaching of all the Buddhas.
— Gautama BuddhaCh. 14, Verse 183
Use itGS4: simple ethical code—avoid evil, do good, purify the mind.
I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail.
— Abraham MaslowThe Psychology of Science: A Reconnaissance (1966), ch. 2, p. 15
Use itGS4/Essay: warn against one-size-fits-all solutions and narrow thinking.
The fact is women are in chains, and their servitude is all the more debasing because they do not realize.
— Susan B. AnthonyQuoted in: Kabir, Hajara Muhammad (2010). Northern women development. [Nigeria]. ISBN 978-978-906-469-4. OCLC 890820657
Use itGS1 on patriarchy: internalised subordination is the deepest servitude.
There is nothing so pitiful as a young cynic because he has gone from knowing nothing to believing nothing.
— Maya AngelouAs quoted in The Truth in Words (2005) by Neal Zero
Use itEssay on youth: warn against cynicism replacing curiosity.
To do all that one is able to do, is to be a man; to do all that one would like to do, would be to be a god.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itLife: doing all one can is what it means to be human.
When one side only of a story is heard and often repeated, the human mind becomes impressed with it insensibly.
— George WashingtonLetter to Edmund Pendleton (22 January 1795)
Use itGS4/Essay on media bias: one-sided repeated narratives subtly shape minds; hear both sides.
To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but what he aspires to.
— Kahlil GibranAs quoted in Become a Conscious Creator: A Return to Self-Empowerment (2007) by Lisa Ford, p. 44
Use itInterview: judge people by aspirations, not just achievements.
The easy confidence with which I know another man's religion is folly teaches me to suspect that my own is also.
— Mark Twainmarginal note in Moncure D. Conway's Sacred Anthology
Use itEssay on tolerance; if others' faith seems folly to you, yours may to them.
For men use, if they have an evil turn, to write it in marble: and whoso doth us a good turn we write it in dust.
— Thomas MoreRichard III and His Miserable End (1543)
Use itLife: we etch wrongs in marble, kindnesses in dust — reverse it.
To avoid all evil, to cultivate good, and to cleanse one's mind — this is the teaching of the Buddhas. (Verse 183)
— DhammapadaTranslator: Acharya Buddharakkhita
Use itGS4: Buddha's summary ethic - avoid evil, do good, purify mind.
Should you find a wise critic to point out your faults, follow him as you would a guide to hidden treasure. (Verse 76)
Use itInterview/Life: value critics who point out faults like a guide to treasure.
He is happy, whose circumstances suit his temper; but he is more excellent, who can suit his temper to any circumstances.
— David Hume§ 6.9 : Of Qualities Useful to Ourselves, Pt. 1
Use itLife/GS4 on adaptability: excel by suiting your temper to any circumstance.
It is easier to discover a deficiency in individuals, in states, and in providence, than to see their real import or value.
— Georg Wilhelm Friedrich HegelLectures on the Philosophy of World History (1832) / Volume 1
Use itGS4/Life: fault-finding is easy; appreciating real worth needs deeper understanding.
In the course of my life I have often had to eat my words, and I must confess that I have always found it a wholesome diet.
— Winston ChurchillQuoted by Lord Normanbrook in Action This Day: Working With Churchill. Memoirs by Lord Norman Brook (And Others) (1968)
Use itInterview: admit mistakes gracefully; retracting is healthy.
Humility is just as much the opposite of self-abasement as it is of self exaltation. To be humble is not to make comparisons.
— Dag Hammarskjöld29 July 1959
Use itGS4: humility means neither self-abasement nor arrogance; it means no comparison.
God turns you from one feeling to another and teaches by means of opposites, so that you will have two wings to fly, not one.
— RumiII, 1552; 1554 (tr. Helminski, 1990)
Use itLife: contrasting experiences of joy and sorrow build balance.
The sad truth of the matter is that most evil is done by people who never made up their minds to be or do either evil or good.
— Hannah ArendtThe Life of the Mind (1978), "Thinking"
Use itGS4 on banality of evil: most harm comes from thoughtless indifference, not intent.
The fundamental cause of the trouble is that in the modern world the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent are full of doubt.
Use itEssay on misinformation: the stupid are cocksure while the intelligent doubt.
Whatever games are played with us, we must play no games with ourselves, but deal in our privacy with the last honesty and truth.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonIllusions
Use itGS4: whatever the external pressure, be completely honest with yourself.
We live, in fact, in a world starved for solitude, silence, and privacy: and therefore starved for meditation and true friendship.
— C. S. Lewis"Membership"
Use itEssay on digital age: world starved of solitude, silence, privacy — and thus reflection.
He whose intellect overcomes his desire is higher than the angels; he whose desire overcomes his intellect is less than an animal.
— RumiKabir Helminski (ed.) The Rumi Collection: An Anthology of Translations (2000)
Use itGS4: reason governing desire as basis of ethical conduct and emotional intelligence.
I have learned over the years that when one's mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.
— Rosa ParksQuiet Strength (2000)
Use itLife: firm resolve dispels fear when facing a hard decision.
Men take on the nature and the habits and the power of thought of those with whom they associate in a spirit of sympathy and harmony.
— Napoleon HillThink & Grow Rich, January 1963, p. 150
Use itLife: we absorb the habits and thinking of those we associate with.
To see ourselves as others see us is a most salutary gift. Hardly less important is the capacity to see others as they see themselves.
Use itGS4 on empathy and self-awareness; see yourself as others do, and others as they see themselves.
Just as iron rusts unless it is used, and water putrifies or, in cold, turns to ice, so our intellect spoils unless it is kept in use.
— Leonardo da VinciVariant: Just as iron rusts from disuse... even so does inaction spoil the intellect
Use itLife/Essay: an unused intellect decays; argue for continuous learning and curiosity.
The vanities of all others may gradually die out, but the vanity of a saint regarding his sainthood is hard indeed to wear away. (110)
— RamakrishnaSayings of Sri Ramakrishna (1960)
Use itGS4: moral vanity—pride in one's own virtue—is the hardest ego to shed.
When thou callest another a fool, as thou must, sometimes, yet do not forget that thou thyself hast been the supreme fool in humanity.
— Sri AurobindoThoughts and Aphorisms (1913) / Jnana
Use itLife: before calling others fools, remember your own folly.
The tragedy of modern man is not that he knows less and less about the meaning of his own life, but that it bothers him less and less.
— Václav HavelLetters to Olga (1988), p. 237
Use itEssay on modern alienation; we have stopped caring about life's meaning.
Translation: If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.
Use itGS4 emotional intelligence: hatred mirrors our own flaws; reflect before reacting.
It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.
— Mahatma GandhiHarijan (17 February 1940)
Use itGS4 on intellectual humility; even the wisest may err.
Toleration ... is the greatest gift of the mind; it requires the same effort of the brain that it takes to balance oneself on a bicycle.
— Helen KellerPart III, Ch. 2: Personality
Use itGS4/Essay on tolerance; tolerance demands conscious mental balance, not passive acceptance.
We must overcome difficulty by constant practice. We must learn that nothing can happen to us unless we make ourselves susceptible to it.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itLife: overcome exam difficulties through constant practice and inner resilience.
Grief and disappointment give rise to anger, anger to envy, envy to malice, and malice to grief again, till the whole circle be completed.
Use itGS4: describe the vicious cycle of grief, anger, envy and malice; need for emotional regulation.
On the occasion of every act ask thyself, How is this with respect to me? Shall I repent of it? A little time and I am dead, and all is gone.
— Marcus AureliusVIII, 2
Use itGS4: ethical test before acting—will I regret this?
Always remember that it is impossible to speak in such a way that you cannot be misunderstood: there will always be some who misunderstand you.
— Karl PopperUnended Quest: An Intellectual Autobiography (1976)
Use itLife: someone will always misunderstand you; communicate clearly and move on.
Scratch the surface of most cynics and you find a frustrated idealist – someone who made the mistake of converting his ideals into expectations
Use itLife: cynicism is disappointed idealism; keep ideals without rigid expectations.
There's a whole bunch of things I don't know a thing about — I just stay away from those. So, I stay within what I call my circle of competence.
— Warren BuffettRules for success
Use itInterview: admit limits; operate within your circle of competence.
Failure is a state of mind. It’s like one of those sand traps an ant lion digs. You keep sliding back. Takes one hell of a jump to get out of it.
— John SteinbeckThe Winter of Our Discontent (1961)
Use itLife: escaping a failure mindset takes a deliberate leap.
The growth of the mind is the widening of the range of consciousness, and ... each step forward has been a most painful and laborious achievement.
Use itEssay on learning; widening consciousness is painful but every step is progress.
The souls of emperors and cobblers are cast in the same mold...The same reason that makes us wrangle with a neighbor creates a war betwixt princes.
— Michel de MontaigneCh. 12 (tr. Cotton, rev. W. Carew Hazlitt, 1877)
Use itEssay on war: the same petty passions drive neighbour quarrels and wars between nations.
A proud man is always looking down on things and people: and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.
— C. S. LewisBook III, Chapter 8, "The Great Sin"
Use itGS4 on arrogance: looking down on others blinds you to what's above.
Emotion is the chief source of all becoming-conscious. There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion.
— Carl JungPsychological Aspects of the Mother Archetype (1938)
Use itGS4 emotional intelligence answer: emotions drive awareness and change, not just disrupt reason.
If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.
— Fyodor DostoyevskyPart III, Chapter 2 (tr. Constance Garnett, 1915)
Use itLife/GS4: self-respect commands respect from others; dignity in conduct.
The superior man has neither anxiety nor fear. When internal examination discovers nothing wrong, what is there to be anxious about, what is there to fear?
Use itGS4: a clear conscience after self-examination removes fear and anxiety.
An arrogant person considers himself perfect. This is the chief harm of arrogance. It interferes with a person's main task in life—becoming a better person.
Use itGS4: arrogance blocks self-improvement.
If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves.
Use itGS4 on family as moral educator; parents should correct themselves before the child.
Above all, avoid falsehood, every kind of falsehood, especially falseness to yourself. Watch over your own deceitfulness and look into it every hour, every minute.
— Fyodor DostoyevskyBook II, ch. 4 (trans. Constance Garnett)
Use itGS4: integrity starts with honesty to oneself; constant self-scrutiny against self-deception.
If some people hadn't felt obliged to repeat what is untrue simply because they had at one point maintained it, they would have turned into quite different people.
Use itGS4: ego makes people defend past falsehoods—courage to admit error.
Human happiness and human satisfaction must ultimately come from within oneself. It is wrong to expect some final satisfaction to come from money or from a computer.
— Dalai Lama (14th)The Path to Tranquility: Daily Wisdom (1998) edited by Renuka Singh
Use itEssay on consumerism; happiness comes from within, not money or gadgets.
There is no worse sickness for the soul, O you who are proud, than this pretense of perfection. The heart and eyes must bleed a lot before self-complacency falls away.
— RumiI, 3213-5 (tr. Helminski, 1990)
Use itGS4: humility; pretending to be perfect blocks growth.
A thought is an arrow shot at the truth; it can hit a point, but not cover the whole target. But the archer is too well satisfied with his success to ask anything farther.
— Sri AurobindoThoughts and Aphorisms (1913) / Jnana
Use itEssay: each viewpoint hits part of the truth; humility about partial knowledge.
Even the greatest fool can accomplish a task if it were after his or her heart. But the intelligent ones are those who can convert every work into one that suits their taste.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itLife/GS4: make any assigned work your own; attitude transforms routine duty.
Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
— Kahlil GibranThe Prophet (1923)
Use itLife: pain breaks the shell of understanding; suffering brings growth.
Fundamentalism is terrifying because it is based purely on emotion, rather than intelligence. It prevents followers from thinking as individuals and about the good of the world.
— Dalai Lama (14th)Daily Telegraph interview (2006)
Use itGS3/Essay on radicalisation; fundamentalism runs on emotion and kills independent thought.
The highest manifestation of life consists in this: that a being governs its own actions. A being that is always subject to the direction of another is somewhat of a dead thing.
— Thomas Aquinas
Use itEssay on autonomy: self-governance is highest life; dependence is deadening.
For it all depends on how we look at things, and not on how they are in themselves. The least of things with a meaning is worth more in life than the greatest of things without it.
Use itEssay on meaning vs material success; perspective decides value, not size of things.
But no wall can be erected against Fortune which she cannot take by storm; let us strengthen our inner defences. If the inner part be safe, man can be attacked, but never captured.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter LXXIV: On Virtue as a Refuge From Worldly Distractions
Use itLife: strengthen inner defences; then setbacks attack but never capture you.
Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with.
— Robert FrostQuoted in Vogue (March 14, 1963)
Use itLife: accept what is given and reshape it your way—work with circumstances, not against.
You may drink the ocean dry; you may uproot from its base the mountain Meru; you may swallow fire. But more diffucult than all these, oh Good One! is control over the mind. Panchadasi.
Use itGS4 on self-control: mastering the mind is harder than any feat.
This sacrifice of common sense is the certain badge which distinguishes slavery from freedom; for when men yield up the privilege of thinking, the last shadow of liberty quits the horizon.
— Thomas Paine"Reflections on Titles", Pennsylvania Magazine (May, 1775)
Use itEssay on freedom of thought: surrendering thinking ends liberty.
Our credulity is a part of the imperfection of our natures. It is inherent in us to desire to generalize, when we ought, on the contrary, to guard ourselves very carefully from this tendency.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itEssay on misinformation: credulity and over-generalisation as human flaws.
We are born helpless. As soon as we are fully conscious we discover loneliness. We need others physically, emotionally, intellectually; we need them if we are to know anything, even ourselves.
— C. S. LewisIntroduction
Use itEssay on man as a social animal; show interdependence and why community shapes self-knowledge.
The fact that man knows right from wrong proves his intellectual superiority to the other creatures; but the fact that he can do wrong proves his moral inferiority to any creature that cannot.
Use itGS4: knowing right from wrong shows intellect; doing wrong shows moral inferiority.
In the United States, the majority undertakes to supply a multitude of ready-made opinions for the use of individuals, who are thus relieved from the necessity of forming opinions of their own.
Use itEssay on social media echo chambers; ready-made opinions replace independent thought.
Adults are only less superstitious than children in proportion as they have more power over their environment. In predicaments where everyone is powerless (eg war, gambling) everyone is superstitious
— George OrwellNew Words (1940)
Use itEssay on superstition: helplessness breeds superstition; empowerment and education reduce it.
The mind must not be forced; artificial and constrained manners fill it with foolish presumption, through unnatural elevation and vain and ridiculous inflation, instead of solid and vigorous nutriment.
— Blaise PascalThe Art of Persuasion
Use itEssay on pedagogy: forced learning breeds presumption, not nourishment.
If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches; for to the creator there is no poverty and no poor indifferent place.
— Rainer Maria RilkeLetter One (17 February 1903) as translated by M. D. Herter Norton (1993)
Use itLife: when life feels dull, change your lens; richness lies in how you see.
We long for unity, but are unwilling to pay the price. But of course, true unity cannot be so easily won. It starts with a change in attitudes - a broadening of our minds, and a broadening of our hearts.
— Barack ObamaRemarks of Senator Barack Obama: The Great Need of the Hour (January 20, 2008 in Atlanta, Georgia)
Use itEssay on national integration: unity needs broader minds and hearts, not slogans.
Although humans are not irrational, they often need help to make more accurate judgements and better decisions. [...] [They] also need protection from others who deliberately exploit their weaknesses [...].
— Daniel KahnemanConclusions, pp. 411-413
Use itGS2/GS3 on nudge policy and consumer protection; people need help deciding and protection from exploitation.
We all do no end of feeling, and we mistake it for thinking. And out of it we get an aggregation which we consider a boon. Its name is public opinion. It is held in reverence. Some think it the voice of God.
— Mark TwainCorn-Pone Opinions (1925)
Use itEssay on public opinion; feeling is mistaken for thinking, then revered.
How many times it thundered before Franklin took the hint! How many apples fell on Newton's head before he took the hint! Nature is always hinting at us. It hints over and over again. And suddenly we take the hint.
— Robert FrostQuoted in Louis Untermeyer, Lives of the Poets: The Story of One Thousand Years of English and American Poetry (1959)
Use itEssay on discovery: nature keeps hinting until an observant mind takes the hint.
It is true that may hold in these things, which is the general root of superstition; namely, that men observe when things hit, and not when they miss; and commit to memory the one, and forget and pass over the other.
— Francis BaconSylva Sylvarum Century X (1627)
Use itEssay on scientific temper (Art 51A): superstition thrives on remembering hits and forgetting misses.
The discovery of truth is prevented more effectively, not by the false appearance things present and which mislead into error, not directly by weakness of the reasoning powers, but by preconceived opinion, by prejudice.
Use itGS4 on bias; prejudice blocks truth more than error.
This is the first lesson to learn: be determined not to curse anything outside, not to lay the blame upon anyone outside, but stand up, lay the blame on yourself. You will find that is always true. Get hold of yourself.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4 on accountability: stop blaming others; own your failures.
He that in his studies wholly applies himself to labour and exercise, and neglects meditation, loses his time, and he that only applies himself to meditation, and neglects labour and exercise, only wanders and loses himself.
— ConfuciusThe Morals of Confucius, 2nd edition (London, 1724), Maxim X, p. 114
Use itEssay on learning: study needs both effort and reflection.
False and doubtful positions, relied upon as unquestionable maxims, keep those who build on them in the dark from truth. Such are usually the prejudices imbibed from education, party, reverence, fashion, interest, et cetera.
Use itGS4: unexamined prejudices from party, fashion and interest block truth.
Who may be called a paramahamsa? He who, like a swan, can take the milk from a mixture of milk and water, leaving aside the water. He who, like an ant, can take the sugar from a mixture of sugar and sand, leaving aside the sand.
Use itGS4 on discernment; like a swan, extract the essential and leave the rest.
Isn't it the moment of most profound doubt that gives birth to new certainties? Perhaps hopelessness is the very soil that nourishes human hope; perhaps one could never find sense in life without first experiencing its absurdity. . .
— Václav HavelQuoted in Amnesty International's essay "From Prisoner to President – A Tribute"
Use itLife: in moments of doubt; hopelessness can seed new hope.
If any man can convince me and bring home to me that I do not think or act aright, gladly will I change; for I search after truth, by which man never yet was harmed. But he is harmed who abideth on still in his deception and ignorance.
— Marcus AureliusVariant translation: If someone is able to show me that what I think or do is not right, I will happily change, for I seek the truth, by whi
Use itInterview/GS4: openness to correction; truth never harms, ignorance does.
O light! This is the cry of all the characters of ancient drama brought face to face with their fate. This last resort was ours, too, and I knew it now. In the middle of winter I at last discovered that there was in me an invincible summer.
— Albert CamusReturn to Tipasa (1954)
Use itLife: in the darkest phase, discover inner strength that endures.
The superior man examines his heart, that there may be nothing wrong there, and that he may have no cause for dissatisfaction with himself. That wherein the superior man cannot be equaled is simply this — his work which other men cannot see.
— ConfuciusThe Doctrine of the Mean
Use itGS4: integrity is the unseen inner work others cannot see; self-examination.
Learning from experience, however, can be complicated. It can be much more difficult to learn from success than from failure. If we fail, we think carefully about the precise cause. Success can indiscriminately reinforce all our prior actions.
— N. R. Narayana MurthyLife lessons from Narayana Murthy (2013)
Use itInterview: lessons from failure vs complacency from success.
Reality is, after all, too big for our frail understanding to fully comprehend. Nevertheless, we have to build our life on the theory which contains the maximum truth. We cannot sit still because we cannot, or do not , know the Absolute Truth.
— Subhas Chandra BoseAs quoted in An Indian pilgrim: an unfinished autobiography (1997) by himself, Sisir Kumar Bose, and Sugata Bose, p. 124
Use itGS4: act on the best available truth despite uncertainty; decision-making under incomplete knowledge.
Could the activity of thinking as such, the habit of examining whatever happens to come to pass or to attract attention, regardless of results and specific content, could this activity be among the conditions that make men abstain from evil-doing?
Use itGS4: habit of reflective thinking may prevent wrongdoing; value of critical reflection.
The imitator dooms himself to hopeless mediocrity. The inventor did it because it was natural to him, and so in him it has a charm. In the imitator something else is natural, and he bereaves himself of his own beauty, to come short of another man's.
Use itLife: imitation breeds mediocrity; build your own originality and approach.
O Madhusūdana, the mind is an unsteady thing. Hence it is unrealistic to expect evenness out of it as your system of yoga demands. O, Keśava, it is easier to control the wind than to try and control the fickle, unsettling, dominant, and stubborn mind.
— Bhagavad GitaArjuna; Chapter 6, verses 33–34; The Times of India translation
Use itLife: the restless mind is harder to control than wind; acknowledge it, then practise.
Human nature is not a machine to be built after a model, and set to do exactly the work prescribed for it, but a tree, which requires to grow and develop itself on all sides, according to the tendency of the inward forces which make it a living thing.
— John Stuart MillCh. III: Of Individuality, As One of the Elements of Well-Being
Use itEssay on holistic education: humans grow like trees, not built like machines.
In Nekhludoff, as in all people, there were two beings; one spiritual, who sought only such happiness for himself as also benefited others; and the animal being, seeking his own happiness for the sake of which he is willing to sacrifice that of the world.
Use itGS4: inner conflict between altruistic and selfish selves.
All students of man and society who possess that first requisite for so difficult a study, a due sense of its difficulties, are aware that the besetting danger is not so much of embracing falsehood for true, as of mistaking part of the truth for the whole.
— John Stuart Mill“Coleridge”. London and Westminster Review. (March 1840)
Use itEssay intro on complex issues: danger is taking partial truth as whole.
In this distribution of functions, the scholar is the delegated intellect. In the right state, he is, Man Thinking. In the degenerate state, when the victim of society, he tends to become a mere thinker, or, still worse, the parrot of other men's thinking.
— Ralph Waldo Emersonpars. 7–8
Use itEssay on education; a true scholar thinks independently rather than parroting others.
The fountain of content must spring up in the mind, and he who hath so little knowledge of human nature as to seek happiness by changing anything but his own disposition, will waste his life in fruitless efforts and multiply the grief he proposes to remove.
Use itEssay on happiness: contentment comes from changing one's disposition, not circumstances.
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly.
— Albert EinsteinLetter to Morris Raphael Cohen, professor emeritus of philosophy at the College of the City of New York, defending the appointment of Bertra
Use itGS4 on innovators and whistle-blowers; original thinkers face opposition from mediocrity.
The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
— Rudyard KiplingAs quoted from “Interview with an Immoral,” Arthur Gordon, Reader’s Digest (July 1959). Reprinted in the Kipling Society journal, “Six Hours
Use itEssay on individuality vs conformity; the cost and worth of thinking independently.
I do see one large and grievous kind of ignorance, separate from the rest, and as weighty as all the other parts put together. Thinking that one knows a thing when one does not know it. Through this, I believe, all the mistakes of the mind are caused in all of us.
— Plato
Use itGS4/Essay: false certainty is the gravest ignorance; value intellectual humility.
Moreover, there is a victory and defeat—the first and best of victories, the lowest and worst of defeats—which each man gains or sustains at the hands, not of another, but of himself; this shows that there is a war against ourselves going on within every one of us.
— Plato
Use itGS4 on self-discipline; victory over oneself is the first and best of victories.
The greatest thing a human soul ever does in this world is to see something, and tell what it saw in a plain way. Hundreds of people can talk for one who can think, but thousands can think for one who can see. To see clearly is poetry, prophecy, and religion, — all in one.
— John RuskinVolume III, part IV, chapter XVI (1856)
Use itEssay on clear thinking: seeing clearly and stating it plainly is rare.
Take a book, the poorest one written, but read it with the passion that it is the only book you will read-ultimately you will read everything out of it, that is, as much as there was in yourself, and you could never get more out of reading, even if you read the best of books.
— Søren KierkegaardStages on Life's Way, 1845 p. 363-364
Use itLife: read even one book deeply; what you gain depends on what you bring.
I always disagree, however, when people end up saying that we can only combat Communism, Fascism or what not if we develop an equal fanaticism. It appears to me that one defeats the fanatic precisely by not being a fanatic oneself, but on the contrary by using one's intelligence.
— George OrwellLetter to Richard Rees (3 March 1949), The Collected Essays, Journalism and Letters of George Orwell, Vol. 4: In front of your nose, 1945-19
Use itEssay on extremism: defeat fanaticism with reason, not counter-fanaticism.
If anyone would like to acquire humility, I can, I think, tell him the first step. The first step is to realise that one is proud. And a biggish step, too. At least, nothing whatever can be done before it. If you think you are not conceited, it means you are very conceited indeed.
— C. S. LewisBook III, Chapter 8, "The Great Sin"
Use itGS4: humility starts by admitting you are proud.
It may be confidently asserted that no man chooses evil because it is evil; he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks. And the desire of rectifying these mistakes, is the noble ambition of an enlightened understanding, the impulse of feelings that Philosophy invigorates.
— Mary WollstonecraftA Vindication of the Rights of Men (1790)
Use itGS4: no one chooses evil as evil, only mistaking it for good.
The lesson is clear: estimates of causes of death are warped by media coverage. [...] The world in our heads is not a precise replica of reality; our expectations about the frequency of events are distorted by the prevalence and emotional intensity of the messages to which we are exposed.
— Daniel KahnemanCh. 13, "Availability, emotion, and risk" p. 138
Use itEssay on media and risk perception; coverage distorts our sense of reality.
The ordinary surroundings of life which are esteemed by men (as their actions testify) to be the highest good, may be classed under the three heads — Riches, Fame, and the Pleasures of Sense: with these three the mind is so absorbed that it has little power to reflect on any different good.
Use itEssay on true happiness: riches, fame and pleasure absorb the mind away from higher good.
When one's mind dwells on the objects of Senses, fondness for them grows on him, from fondness comes desire, from desire anger. Anger leads to bewilderment, bewilderment to loss of memory of true Self, and by that intelligence is destroyed, and with the destruction of intelligence he perishes
— Bhagavad GitaKrishna; Chapter 2, verses 62–63
Use itGS4 on emotional intelligence: chain from desire to anger to ruin of judgement.
We speak glibly of conservation education, but what do we mean by it? If we mean indoctrination, then let us be reminded that it is just as easy to indoctrinate with fallacies as with facts. If we mean to teach the capacity for independent judgement, then I am appalled by the magnitude of the task.
— Aldo Leopold"The Ecological Conscience" [1947]; Published in The River of the Mother of God and Other Essays by Aldo Leopold, Susan L. Flader and J. Bai
Use itEssay on education; teach independent judgement, not indoctrination.
He who is subjected to a field of visibility, and who knows it, assumes responsibility for the constraints of power; he makes them play spontaneously upon himself; he inscribes in himself the power relation in which he simultaneously plays both roles; he becomes the principle of his own subjection.
— Michel FoucaultPart Three, Panopticism
Use itEssay on surveillance: visibility makes people self-police; panopticon.
I am struck by the incredible role played by the interplay of chance events with intentional choices. While the turning points themselves are indeed often fortuitous, how we respond to them is anything but so. It is this very quality of how we respond systematically to chance events that is crucial.
— N. R. Narayana MurthyLife lessons from Narayana Murthy (2013)
Use itLife: how you respond to chance events defines outcomes.
Writing is born as the maidservant of human consciousness, but is increasingly becoming its master. Our computers have trouble understanding how Homo sapiens talks, feels and dreams. So we are teaching Homo sapiens to talk, feel and dream in the language of numbers, which can be understood by computers.
— Yuval Noah HarariSapiens: A Brief History of Humankind (2011) / Chapter 7: "Memory Overloaded"
Use itEssay on datafication; humans adapting to machines rather than vice versa.
The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude. No big laboratory is needed in which to think. Originality thrives in seclusion free of outside influences beating upon us to cripple the creative mind. Be alone, that is the secret of invention; be alone, that is when ideas are born.
— Nikola Tesla"An Inventor's Seasoned Ideas", The New York Times (8 April 1934)
Use itEssay on creativity: solitude fosters originality and invention.
Three years ago he was an honest, self-denying youth, ready to devote himself to every good cause; now he was a corrupt and refined egotist, given over to personal enjoyment. ... And all this terrible transformation took place in him only because he ceased to have faith in himself, and began to believe in others.
Use itGS4: losing self-belief to conformity corrupts idealism; peer pressure.

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