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Character & Virtue quotes for UPSC & State PCS

315 sourced quotes on virtues, habits and the making of character, each with a use case for GS4, Essay and interviews. Thinkers include Marcus Aurelius, Seneca the Younger, Confucius, Swami Vivekananda, Samuel Johnson, Michel de Montaigne.

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The supreme vice is shallowness.
— Oscar WildeDe Profundis (1897)
Use itGS4: on depth of character; superficial values and tokenism as the gravest failing.
He was as great as a man can be without morality.
— Alexis de TocquevilleSaid of Napoleon (1842), "Discours de réception a L'Académie Française prononcé le 21 Avril 1842" Oeuvres complètes, vol. IX, p. 17
Use itGS4: greatness without morality is incomplete; contrast ability with ethics.
More glorious to merit a sceptre than to possess one.
— NapoleonMemoirs of Napoleon (1829-1831)
Use itGS4: merit over position — better to deserve power than to hold it.
We come nearest to the great when we are great in humility.
Use itGS4 on humility; greatness is approached through humility, not pride.
Character & VirtueGS4InterviewLife
I have no idea. People who boast about their IQ are losers.
— Stephen HawkingResponse upon being questioned as to his IQ, in interview with Deborah Solomon "The Science of Second-Guessing", The New York Times (12 Dece
Use itInterview/Life: humility—boasting about intelligence is a weakness.
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There never was a bad man that had ability for good service.
— Edmund BurkeSpeech in opening the impeachment of Warren Hastings (18 February 1788), quoted in The Works of the Right Honourable Edmund Burke, Volume th
Use itGS4: integrity over competence; a bad person cannot render good service.
Righteousness cannot be born until self-righteousness is dead.
— Bertrand RussellJustice in War-Time (1916), p. 192
Use itGS4 on moral humility: righteousness begins only when self-righteousness dies.
It is easy to be nice, even to an enemy — from lack of character.
Use itGS4: niceness can be weakness; character sometimes needs firmness, even with opponents.
A talent is formed in stillness, a character in the world's torrent.
— Johann Wolfgang von GoetheTorquato Tasso, Act I, sc. ii (1790)
Use itEssay/Interview: talent grows in solitude, character in life's struggles.
Character & VirtueEssayInterviewLife
Only a man's character is the real criterion of worth. (22 August 1944)
Use itGS4: character is the true measure of a person's worth.
Out of the crooked timber of humanity, no straight thing was ever made.
Use itEssay on human imperfection; design institutions assuming flawed humans.
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
— Mahatma Gandhi"Interview to the Press" in Karachi about the execution of Bhagat Singh (23 March 1931); published in Young India (2 April 1931), reprinted
Use itGS4: forgiveness is a sign of strength; on reconciliation and emotional maturity.
Few are those who wish to be endowed with virtue rather than to seem so.
— Cicero
Use itGS4: contrast being virtuous with appearing virtuous; few choose the former.
It is no use to preach to [children] if you do not act decently yourself.
— Theodore RooseveltSpeech to Holy Name Society, Oyster Bay, August 16, 1903
Use itGS4 on family/role models in value inculcation: teach by example, not preaching.
Beauty doesn't need ornaments. Softness can't bear the weight of ornaments.
Use itEssay on simplicity; true beauty needs no ornamentation or display.
A man's worth is not measured by his wealth but by his character and deeds.
— PremchandIn Karmabhoomi (1932)
Use itGS4: a person's worth lies in character and deeds, not wealth.
Character & VirtueEssayGS4Life
There is no greater wealth than Virtue, And no greater loss than to forget it.
— ThiruvalluvarVerse IV.2
Use itGS4 intro: virtue as the greatest wealth; forgetting it the greatest loss.
Nothing but the most exemplary morals can give dignity to a man of small fortune.
— Adam SmithChapter I, Part III, Article III, p. 874
Use itGS4: integrity gives dignity regardless of wealth.
Gratitude is a fruit of great cultivation; you do not find it among gross people.
— Samuel Johnson(20 September 1773)
Use itGS4/Life: gratitude is a cultivated virtue reflecting refinement of character.
All through life, be sure and put your feet in the right place, and then stand firm.
— Abraham LincolnAs recalled by Rebecca R. Pomroy in Echoes from hospital and White House (1884), by Anna L. Boyden, p. 61
Use itLife/GS4: choose the right position carefully, then hold it under pressure.
The being of all virtues, and chiefly of temperance, depends on the practice of them.
— SocratesMemorabilia I.3.10
Use itGS4: virtues exist only through practice, not knowledge.
In War: Resolution. In Defeat: Defiance. In Victory: Magnanimity. In Peace: Good Will.
— Winston ChurchillThe Second World War, Volume I : The Gathering Storm (1948) Moral of the Work, p. ix
Use itGS4/Essay: right attitude in war, defeat, victory and peace.
However, he who makes himself a worm cannot complain afterwards that he gets stepped on.
Use itLife/GS4: self-respect—those who demean themselves invite being trampled.
We want deeper sincerity of motive, a greater courage in speech and earnestness in action.
— Sarojini Naidu
Use itGS4: sincerity of motive, courage in speech, earnestness in action.
Difficulty attracts a man of character, for it is by embracing it that he fulfills himself.
— Charles de GaulleLa difficulté attire l'homme de caractère, car c'est en l'étreignant qu'il se réalise lui-même
Use itLife/Interview: people of character embrace difficulty to fulfil themselves.
In the last analysis, what we are communicates far more eloquently than anything we say or do.
— Stephen CoveyCh. 4 : Primary Greatness, p. 58
Use itGS4: character speaks louder than words; lead by being.
I don't know who my grandfather was; I am much more concerned to know what his grandson will be.
— Abraham LincolnAs quoted in The Early Life of Abraham Lincoln (1896) by Ida Tarbell
Use itEssay on meritocracy; judge people by their conduct, not their lineage.
Be warned in time, James, and remain, as I do, incomprehensible: to be great is to be misunderstood.
— Oscar WildeLetter to James McNeill Whistler (23 February 1885)
Use itLife: being misunderstood is part of greatness.
Character is higher than intellect...A great soul will be strong to live, as well as strong to think.
Use itGS4: character outranks intellect; values must match ability in public servants.
Character & VirtueEssayGS4Interview
There is no power on earth, that can neutralize the influence of a high, pure, simple and useful life.
— Booker T. Washington"The Virtue of Simplicity," from Character Building: Being Addresses Delivered on Sunday Evenings to the Students of Tuskegee Institute (190
Use itGS4: nothing can neutralise the influence of a simple, useful life.
Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more.
— Nikola Tesla"The Problem of Increasing Human Energy", Century Illustrated Magazine (June 1900)
Use itGS4: virtues and failings are inseparable in human nature.
Virtue is harder to be got than knowledge of the world; and, if lost in a young man, is seldom recovered.
Use itGS4: why character-building must start early; lost virtue is hard to regain.
I have ever deemed it more honorable and profitable, too, to set a good example than to follow a bad one.
— Thomas JeffersonAs quoted in The Life and Writings of Thomas Jefferson : Including All of His Important Utterances on Public Questions (1900) by Samuel E. F
Use itGS4: better to set a good example than follow a bad one.
The second half of a man's life is made up of nothing but the habits he has acquired during the first half.
— Fyodor DostoyevskyAs quoted in Peter's Quotations: Ideas for Our Time (1979) by Laurence J. Peter, p. 299
Use itLife: habits formed in youth define later life; build good routines early.
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.
— PericlesAs quoted in Flicker to Flame : Living with Purpose, Meaning, and Happiness (2006) by Jeffrey Thompson Parker, p. 118
Use itEssay/Interview on legacy; true legacy lies in lives touched, not monuments built.
Therefore only an utterly senseless person can fail to know that our characters are the result of our conduct.
Use itGS4: character is shaped by repeated conduct.
It is so easy a thing to give—only great men have the courage and courtesy and, yes, the generosity to receive.
— John SteinbeckFriend Ed to Joe Saul in Act Three, Scene I: The Sea
Use itLife: graciously accepting help is also generosity.
The only difference between the saint and the sinner is that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.
— Oscar WildeLord Illingworth, Act III
Use itGS4: reformative view — every saint has a past, every sinner a future.
There is no use of simply acquiring titles or amassing wealth if one has no self-respect and scientific knowledge.
— Periyar E. V. RamasamyQuoted in “Collected works of Periyar E.V.R.” p. 511
Use itEssay on true worth; titles and wealth are hollow without self-respect and scientific temper.
True character stands the test of emergencies. Do not be mistaken, it is weakness from which the awakening is rude.
— NapoleonNapoleon : In His Own Words (1916)
Use itGS4: true character is revealed in emergencies.
You don't have to think about doing the right thing. If you're for the right thing, then you do it without thinking.
— Maya AngelouQuoting her mother's statement after her son's birth
Use itGS4: virtue ethics — good character makes right action habitual.
He who would not be frustrate of his hope to write well hereafter in laudable things ought himself to be a true poem.
— John MiltonApology for Smectymnuus (1642)
Use itGS4: integrity of life and work; to speak of virtue, live it.
Should you find a wise critic to point out your faults, follow him as you would a guide to hidden treasure. (Verse 76)
Use itInterview/Life: value critics who point out faults like a guide to treasure.
Translation: This vice [Pride] does not measure happiness so much by its own conveniences, as by the miseries of others.
Use itGS4: pride measures happiness by others' misery — envy and ego.
In the course of my life I have often had to eat my words, and I must confess that I have always found it a wholesome diet.
— Winston ChurchillQuoted by Lord Normanbrook in Action This Day: Working With Churchill. Memoirs by Lord Norman Brook (And Others) (1968)
Use itInterview: admit mistakes gracefully; retracting is healthy.
Humility is just as much the opposite of self-abasement as it is of self exaltation. To be humble is not to make comparisons.
— Dag Hammarskjöld29 July 1959
Use itGS4: humility means neither self-abasement nor arrogance; it means no comparison.
Great work requires great and persistent effort for a long time. … Character has to be established through a thousand stumbles.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4 on character building: formed through persistent effort and a thousand stumbles.
Watch people do their most common actions; these are indeed the things that will tell you the real character of a great person.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4: character shows in ordinary daily actions, not grand gestures.
Character & VirtueGS4Interview
To live each day as though one's last, never flustered, never apathetic, never attitudinizing – here is perfection of character.
Use itGS4: perfection of character—live each day calm, engaged and genuine.
Adversity is sometimes hard upon a man; but for one man who can stand prosperity, there are a hundred that will stand adversity.
— Thomas Carlyle(Often shortened to "can't stand prosperity" as an unknown quote)
Use itGS4: prosperity tests character more than adversity.
Drop by drop is the water pot filled. Likewise, the wise man, gathering it little by little, fills himself with good. (Verse 122)
Use itGS4/Life: character is built little by little, like a pot filled drop by drop.
It is the patient building of character, the intense struggle to realize the truth, which alone will tell in the future of humanity.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4/Essay: humanity's future depends on patient character building, not quick fixes.
Idleness and Pride Tax with a heavier Hand than Kings and Parliaments; If we can get rid of the former we may easily bear the Latter.
— Benjamin FranklinLetter to Charles Thomson, 11 July 1765; also quoted in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919). The last sentence is sometimes misq
Use itLife/GS4: idleness and pride cost more than any tax.
It is with narrow-souled people as with narrow necked bottles: the less they have in them, the more noise they make in pouring it out.
— Alexander PopeThoughts on Various Subjects (1727)
Use itLife: shallow people make the most noise.
The vanities of all others may gradually die out, but the vanity of a saint regarding his sainthood is hard indeed to wear away. (110)
— RamakrishnaSayings of Sri Ramakrishna (1960)
Use itGS4: moral vanity—pride in one's own virtue—is the hardest ego to shed.
When thou callest another a fool, as thou must, sometimes, yet do not forget that thou thyself hast been the supreme fool in humanity.
— Sri AurobindoThoughts and Aphorisms (1913) / Jnana
Use itLife: before calling others fools, remember your own folly.
If a man does not have an ideal and try to live up to it, then he becomes a mean, base, and sordid creature, no matter how successful.
— Theodore RooseveltLetter to his son, Kermit, quoted in Theodore Roosevelt by Joseph Bucklin Bishop (1915)
Use itGS4: without ideals, success leaves one mean and sordid.
Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
Use itLife/Essay: parents guide, but character is self-made.
But true good fortune is what you make for yourself. Good fortune: good character, good intentions, and good actions. (Hays translation)
Use itEssay: true good fortune is good character, intentions and actions.
For what is there more hideous than avarice, more brutal than lust, more contemptible than cowardice, more base than stupidity and folly?
— Cicero
Use itGS4: list of vices (greed, lust, cowardice, folly) opposing virtue.
The true value of a human being is determined primarily by the measure and the sense in which he has attained to liberation from the self.
— Albert EinsteinThe World As I See It (1949)
Use itGS4 on selflessness; true worth lies in freedom from ego.
Perhaps a man's character was like a tree, and his reputation like its shadow; the shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
— Abraham LincolnAs quoted in "Lincoln's Imagination" by Noah Brooks, in Scribner's Monthly (August 1879), p. 586
Use itGS4: distinguish character from reputation; image management vs real integrity.
The truly good and wise man will bear all kinds of fortune in a seemly way, and will always act in the noblest manner that the circumstances allow.
Use itGS4/Life: a wise person handles good and bad fortune with dignity.
A proud man is always looking down on things and people: and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.
— C. S. LewisBook III, Chapter 8, "The Great Sin"
Use itGS4 on arrogance: looking down on others blinds you to what's above.
If thou shouldst say, 'It is enough, I have reached perfection,' all is lost. For it is the function of perfection to make one know one's imperfection.
— Augustine of HippoQuoted by Aldous Huxley, in The Perennial Philosophy (1945)
Use itLife/Interview: complacency kills growth; true excellence knows its imperfections.
If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.
— Fyodor DostoyevskyPart III, Chapter 2 (tr. Constance Garnett, 1915)
Use itLife/GS4: self-respect commands respect from others; dignity in conduct.
But both courses are to be avoided; you should not copy the bad simply because they are many, nor should you hate the many because they are unlike you.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter VII: On crowds
Use itGS4: don't follow the crowd into wrong, nor hate those unlike you.
‘There is none like to me!' says the Cub in the pride of his earliest kill; But the jungle is large and the Cub he is small. Let him think and be still.
— Rudyard KiplingKaa's hunting
Use itLife: humility after early success; early wins should not breed arrogance.
The vices respectively fall short of or exceed what is right in both passions and actions, while virtue both finds and chooses that which is intermediate.
Use itGS4 on golden mean; virtue lies between excess and deficiency.
When a person doesn't have gratitude, something is missing in his or her humanity. A person can almost be defined by his or her attitude toward gratitude.
— Elie WieselInterview in O : The Oprah Magazine (November 2000)
Use itGS4/Life: gratitude is essential to our humanity.
Treat people with respect, whoever they are, and expect your governments to treat everybody with respect. And if you do that, then you’re going to be okay.
— Barack ObamaYoung Southeast Asian Leaders Initiative Town Hall (April 2014)
Use itGS4/Life: treat everyone with respect and expect government to do the same.
The man of perfect virtue is cautious and slow in his speech. When a man feels the difficulty of doing, can he be other than cautious and slow in speaking?
Use itGS4: virtuous people are slow to speak because they know doing is hard; promise less, deliver more.
An arrogant person considers himself perfect. This is the chief harm of arrogance. It interferes with a person's main task in life—becoming a better person.
Use itGS4: arrogance blocks self-improvement.
Character, courage, industry and perseverance are the four pillars on which the whole edifice of human life can be built and failure is a word unknown to me.
— Muhammad Ali JinnahAs quoted in Mohammad Ali Jinnah : A Political Study (1962) by M. H. Saiyid, p. 9
Use itInterview/GS4: character, courage, industry, perseverance as four pillars of life.
I am not concerned that I have no place; I am concerned how I may fit myself for one. I am not concerned that I am not known; I seek to be worthy to be known.
— ConfuciusIV, xiv. Quoted from Will Durant, Our Oriental Heritage
Use itLife/Interview: focus on becoming worthy of a post, not on getting it.
Does the light of a lamp shine and keep its glow until its fuel is spent? Why shouldn't your truth, justice, and self-control shine until you are extinguished?
Use itGS4: let truth, justice and self-control shine till the end, like a lamp.
One cannot attain divine knowledge till one gets rid of pride. Water does not stay on the top of a mound; but into low land it flows in torrents from all sides.
Use itLife/GS4: pride blocks learning; humble minds receive knowledge like low land receives water.
What the world wants is character. The world is in need of those whose life is one burning love, selfless. That love will make every word tell like a thunderbolt.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4 intro: the world needs character and selfless love more than skill.
Our actual enemy is not any force exterior to ourselves, but our own crying weaknesses, our cowardice, our selfishness, our hypocrisy, our purblind sentimentalism.
— Sri Aurobindo21 August 1893
Use itEssay/GS4: real enemies are internal—cowardice, selfishness, hypocrisy.
I propose to value them according to their character, and not according to their duties. Each man acquires his character for himself, but accident assigns his duties.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter XLVII: On master and slave
Use itGS4: judge people by character, not job or status; dignity of labour.
Our duty is to encourage every one in his struggle to live up to his own highest idea, and strive at the same time to make the ideal as near as possible to the Truth.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4 on tolerance: encourage each to live up to their own ideal.
There is no worse sickness for the soul, O you who are proud, than this pretense of perfection. The heart and eyes must bleed a lot before self-complacency falls away.
— RumiI, 3213-5 (tr. Helminski, 1990)
Use itGS4: humility; pretending to be perfect blocks growth.
If you act externally with men in conformity with your rank, you should recognize, by a more secret but truer thought, that you have nothing naturally superior to them.
— Blaise PascalDiscourses on the Condition of the Great
Use itGS4 on officer humility: act per rank outwardly, but know you're not naturally superior.
Self-respect will keep a man from being abject when he is in the power of enemies, and will enable him to feel that he may be in the right when the world is against him.
— Bertrand RussellAuthority and the Individual (1949), p. 59
Use itGS4: self-respect keeps you upright under pressure and when the world is against you.
...be tolerant with others and strict with yourself. Remember, nothing belongs to you but your flesh and blood—and nothing else is under your control. (Hays translation)
Use itGS4: be tolerant with others and strict with yourself.
Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears; I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him. The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interred with their bones.
— William ShakespeareAntony, Act III, scene ii
Use itGS4/Essay: misdeeds outlive the doer while good is forgotten; legacy of actions.
Make compassion the cotton, contentment the thread, modesty the knot and truth the twist. This is the sacred thread of the soul; if you have it, then go ahead and put it on me.
— Guru NanakRaag Aasaa 471:5383-4
Use itGS4/GS1: inner virtues over ritual; compassion, contentment, modesty and truth as true sacred thread.
Trained mules are excellent, and so are thoroughbred horses from the Sindh, and so are great battle elephants, but more excellent than them all is a disciplined man. (Verse 322)
Use itLife/GS4: a disciplined person excels all; value of self-discipline.
The hell to be endured hereafter, of which theology tells, is no worse than the hell we make for ourselves in this world by habitually fashioning our characters in the wrong way.
Use itGS4: character built through habits creates one's own heaven or hell.
Whatever is in any way beautiful hath its source of beauty in itself, and is complete in itself; praise forms no part of it. So it is none the worse nor the better for being praised.
— Marcus AureliusVariant: That which is really beautiful has no need of anything. (trans. George Long)
Use itGS4: true worth doesn't depend on praise; on integrity without recognition.
I have lived as plain Mr. Jinnah and I hope to die as plain Mr. Jinnah. I am very much averse to any title or honours and I will be more than happy if there was no prefix to my name.
— Muhammad Ali JinnahAs quoted in Plain Mr. Jinnah : Selections from Quaid-e-Azam's Correspondence (1976)
Use itGS4: humility and aversion to titles; simplicity in public life.
For us, with the rule of right and wrong given us by Christ, there is nothing for which we have no standard. And there is no greatness where there is not simplicity, goodness, and truth.
Use itGS4: greatness requires simplicity, goodness and truth.
Sobriety, as opposed to inebriety and gluttony, is of admirable use in teaching men that nature is satisfied with a little, and enabling them to content themselves with simple and frugal fare.
— EpicurusAncient and Modern Celebrated Freethinkers (Half-Hours with the Freethinkers)
Use itGS4: argue for simple living and restraint against consumerism; link to Gandhian need-versus-greed.
Independence I have long considered as the grand blessing of life, the basis of every virtue; and independence I will ever secure by contracting my wants, though I were to live on a barren heath.
— Mary WollstonecraftDedication
Use itGS4: link self-reliance and limited wants to integrity; Gandhian simplicity parallel.
They cannot degrade Frederick Douglass. The soul that is within me no man can degrade. I am not the one that is being degraded on account of this treatment, but those who are inflicting it upon me…
— Frederick DouglassUpon being forced to leave a train car due to his color, as quoted in Up from Slavery (1901), Ch. VI: "Black Race And Red Race, the penalty
Use itGS4/Essay: human dignity is inviolable; those who discriminate degrade themselves, not victims.
Moderation, in the pursuit of honors or riches, is the only security against disappointment and vexation. A wise man, therefore, will prefer the simplicity of rustic life to the magnificence of courts.
— EpicurusAncient and Modern Celebrated Freethinkers (Half-Hours with the Freethinkers)
Use itGS4: show moderation in ambition guards against frustration; essay on contentment versus greed.
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Virtue refuses facility for her companion ... the easy, gentle, and sloping path that guides the footsteps of a good natural disposition is not the path of true virtue. It demands a rough and thorny road.
— Michel de MontaigneCh. 11. Of Cruelty (tr. Donald M. Frame)
Use itGS4: virtue is tested on hard roads, not easy ones; ethics under pressure.
All a man has is pride. Sometimes you have it so much it is a sin. We have all done things for pride that we knew were impossible. We didn't care. But a man must implement his pride with intelligence and care.
Use itGS4: distinguish healthy self-respect from arrogance; pride must be guided by intelligence.
No doubt the reason is that character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.
— Helen KellerHelen Keller's Journal: 1936-1937 (1938), p. 60
Use itEssay/Life: character is forged through trial and suffering, not ease.
We are spinning our own fates, good or evil, and never to be undone. Every smallest stroke of virtue or of vice leaves its never so little scar. ...Nothing we ever do is, in strict scientific literalness, wiped out.
Use itGS4: every small act of virtue or vice leaves a lasting mark.
Do not conceive that fine Clothes make fine Men, any more than fine feathers make fine Birds—A plain genteel dress is more admired and obtains more credit than lace & embroidery in the Eyes of the judicious and sensible.
— George WashingtonLetter to Bushrod Washington (15 January 1783)
Use itLife/Interview: substance over appearance; simplicity earns more respect than show.
Character & VirtueInterviewLife
I learned the lesson that great men cultivate love, and that only little men cherish a spirit of hatred. I learned that assistance given to the weak makes the one who gives it strong; and that oppression of the unfortunate makes one weak.
— Booker T. WashingtonChapter XI: Making Their Beds Before They Could Lie On Them
Use itGS4: great men cultivate love; helping the weak strengthens the giver.
Personal independence is a virtue and it is the soul out of which comes the sturdiest manhood. But there can be no independence without a large share of self-dependence, and this virtue cannot be bestowed. It must be developed from within.
— Frederick DouglassSelf-Made Men (1872)
Use itLife/Interview: self-reliance must be cultivated from within; it cannot be gifted.
No one saves us but ourselves, No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path Buddhas merely teach the way. By ourselves is evil done, By ourselves is pain endured, By ourselves we cease from wrong, By ourselves become we pure.
— Gautama BuddhaCh. 165, as translated in The Dharma, or The Religion of Enlightenment; An Exposition of Buddhism (1896) by Paul Carus; variants for some ye
Use itGS4/Life: self-responsibility; teachers show the way but we must walk the path.
Self-confidence is not pride. Just the contrary: only a person or a nation that is self-confident, in the best sense of the word, is capable of listening to others, accepting them as equals, forgiving its enemies and regretting its own guilt.
— Václav HavelNew Year's Address to the Nation (1990)
Use itGS4/Essay: true self-confidence enables listening, forgiving and owning guilt.
Revolutionary morality does not fall from the sky. It is developed and consolidated through persevering daily struggle and effort. Like jade, the more it is polished the more it shines. Like gold, it grows ever purer as it foes into the melting pot.
— Ho Chí MinhOn Revolutionary Morality (1958)
Use itGS4: morality is built through daily practice; polished like jade, purified like gold.
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. The true neighbor will risk his position, his prestige and even his life for the welfare of others.
— Martin Luther King Jr.Strength to Love, p. 25
Use itGS4: a person's true measure is shown in times of challenge, not comfort.
Character & VirtueCourageEssayGS4Interview
The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
— Rudyard KiplingAs quoted from “Interview with an Immoral,” Arthur Gordon, Reader’s Digest (July 1959). Reprinted in the Kipling Society journal, “Six Hours
Use itEssay on individuality vs conformity; the cost and worth of thinking independently.
If anyone would like to acquire humility, I can, I think, tell him the first step. The first step is to realise that one is proud. And a biggish step, too. At least, nothing whatever can be done before it. If you think you are not conceited, it means you are very conceited indeed.
— C. S. LewisBook III, Chapter 8, "The Great Sin"
Use itGS4: humility starts by admitting you are proud.
Character, not circumstances, makes the man. It is more important that we be prepared for voting than that we vote, more important that we be prepared to hold office than that we hold office, more important that we be prepared for the highest recognition than that we be recognized.
— Booker T. Washington"Democracy and Education", address at the Institute of Arts and Sciences, Brooklyn, New York (30 September 1896)
Use itGS4/Interview: character, not circumstance, makes a person; prepare to deserve office.
Above all things, lose no occasion of exercising your dispositions to be grateful, to be generous, to be charitable, to be humane, to be true, just, firm, orderly, courageous, &c. Consider every act of this kind, as an exercise which will strengthen your moral faculties and increase your worth.
— Thomas JeffersonLetter to Peter Carr (1787)
Use itGS4 on virtue ethics: practise generosity and justice to strengthen moral faculties.
The greatest minds are marked by nothing more distinctly than an inconceivable humility, and acceptance of work or instruction in any form, and from any quarter. They will learn from everybody, and do anything that anybody asks, so long as it involves only toil, or what other men would think degradation.
— John RuskinAddenda, note 4, section 137
Use itGS4: humility as mark of greatness; willingness to learn from anyone.
Three years ago he was an honest, self-denying youth, ready to devote himself to every good cause; now he was a corrupt and refined egotist, given over to personal enjoyment. ... And all this terrible transformation took place in him only because he ceased to have faith in himself, and began to believe in others.
Use itGS4: losing self-belief to conformity corrupts idealism; peer pressure.
Ask counsel of him who rules himself well.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / XIX Philosophical Maxims. Morals. Polemics and Speculations
Use itGS4: seek counsel from the self-disciplined; self-governance as a leadership credential.
Society doesn't have values. People have values.
— Milton FriedmanFrom Created Equal, an episode of the PBS Free to Choose television series (1980, vol. 5 transcript)
Use itGS4: values reside in individuals; personal moral responsibility over collective blame.
As our acts and our thoughts are, so will our lives be.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter XCV: On the usefulness of basic principles
Use itLife: thoughts and actions shape the life we get.
Example, whether it be good or bad, has a powerful influence.
— George WashingtonLetter to Lord Stirling (5 March 1780)
Use itGS4: leadership by example; conduct of seniors shapes organisational culture.
Man is created free, and is free, Though he be born in chains.
— Friedrich SchillerDie Worte des Glaubens (The Word of the Faithful), st. 2 (1797)
Use itEssay on inner freedom: humans remain free in spirit even under oppression.
The memory of benefits is a frail defence against ingratitude.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / XIX Philosophical Maxims. Morals. Polemics and Speculations
Use itGS4/Life: favours do not guarantee gratitude; do good without expectation.
Before a man can do things there must be things he will not do.
— MenciusBook 4, part 2, v. 8, as translated by John T. McNeill, A History of the Cure of Souls (New York: Harper & Bros, 1951), p. 59
Use itGS4: ethical boundaries come first; integrity means things you refuse to do.
You can have no dominion greater or less than that over yourself.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / XIX Philosophical Maxims. Morals. Polemics and Speculations
Use itGS4 on self-mastery; the greatest dominion is over oneself.
The greatest of faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none.
— Thomas CarlyleHeroes and Hero-Worship (1840) / The Hero as Prophet
Use itInterview: on weaknesses — worst fault is believing you have none.
The confession of evil works is the first beginning of good works.
— Augustine of HippoTractates on the Gospel of John; tractate XII on John 3:6-21, § 13
Use itGS4 case study: admitting wrongdoing as first step to correction; whistleblowing and accountability.
He who pursues fame at the risk of losing his self is not a scholar.
— ZhuangziCh. 6 (tr. Lin Yutang, 1942)
Use itGS4: chasing fame at the cost of self betrays scholarship.
It is not truth that makes man great, but man that makes truth great.
— ConfuciusAs quoted in The Importance of Living (1937) by Lin Yutang, p. v
Use itEssay: truth matters only when people live it.
A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes.
— Mahatma GandhiIn Ethical Religion, (Madras: S. Ganesan, 1922), p. 62, Scan from Harvard University Library (both only work with an U.S. source IP address)
Use itLife/Essay: you become what you think; on mindset and self-making.
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
— Mark TwainTo the Young People's Society, Greenpoint Presbyterian Church, Brooklyn (16 February 1901)
Use itGS4/Life: always do right, whatever others think.
We forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people.
— Arthur SchopenhauerAs attributed in Dictionary of Quotations from Ancient and Modern English and Foreign Sources (1899) by James Wood, p. 624
Use itLife/Essay on conformity; we lose most of ourselves trying to fit in.
Tell him to live by yes and no — yes to everything good, no to everything bad.
— William JamesAs quoted in The Thought and Character of William James (1935) by Ralph Barton Perry, Vol. II, ch. 91
Use itGS4/Life: moral clarity; yes to good, no to bad.
The more you obey your conscience, the more your conscience will demand of you.
— C. S. LewisBook IV, Chapter 8, "Is Christianity Hard or Easy?"
Use itGS4: explain conscience as an inner voice that grows sharper with practice; use in conscience-vs-law answers.
In painting as in eloquence, the greater your strength, the quieter your manner.
— John RuskinVolume V, part VIII, chapter III (1860)
Use itGS4: quiet confidence; real strength needs no show.
A superior who works on his own development sets an almost irresistible example.
Use itGS4: lead by example; a superior's self-improvement inspires subordinates.
Dr. Rajendra Prasad was a true Bodhisatva. His humility brought tears to my eyes.
— Dalai Lama (14th)Freedom in Exile: The Autobiography of the Dalai Lama (1991)
Use itGS4/Interview: cite Dr Rajendra Prasad's humility as an Indian role model.
There are victories of the soul and spirit. Sometimes, even if you lose, you win.
— Elie WieselAttributed in The Little Book of Romanian Wisdom (2011) edited by Diana Doroftei and Matthew Cross
Use itLife: moral victories matter; sometimes losing is winning.
Wickedness is always easier than virtue; for it takes the short cut to everything.
— Samuel Johnson(17 September 1773)
Use itGS4: ethical path is harder; wrongdoing always offers shortcuts.
None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license.
— John MiltonTenure of Kings and Magistrates (1649)
Use itEssay on liberty vs licence; true freedom needs moral restraint.
Only after Winter comes do we know that the pine and the cypress are the last to fade.
— ConfuciusAnalects / Other chapters
Use itEssay/Life: adversity reveals who endures; character shows in hard times.
I have never regarded any man as my superior, either in my life outside or inside prison.
— Nelson MandelaNelson Mandela on equaliy, From a letter to General Du Preez, Commissioner of Prisons, Written on Robben Island, Cape Town, South Africa (12
Use itGS4: self-respect and equality — no one is superior.
All mortals are equal; it is not their birth, But virtue itself that makes the difference.
Use itGS1/GS4: against caste and birth-based hierarchy; merit and virtue distinguish people.
Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its heart the absolute principle of self-sacrifice.
— Woodrow WilsonAddress on American Spirit, Washington (13 July 1916)
Use itGS4: loyalty is hollow without self-sacrifice.
Bad men live that they may eat and drink, whereas good men eat and drink that they may live.
— SocratesPlutarch Moralia, How the Young Man Should Study Poetry
Use itLife: eat to live, not live to eat.
There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.
— Aldous HuxleyTime Must Have a Stop (1944)
Use itLife/GS4: change begins with self-improvement.
A few heart-whole, sincere, and energetic men and women can do more in a year than a mob in a century.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itEssay on small committed groups: sincerity outweighs numbers.
Courage, not cleverness; not even inspiration, is the grain of mustard that grows up to be a great tree.
Use itEssay: courage, not cleverness, grows into greatness—on moral courage over intellect.
In a valiant suffering for others, not in a slothful making others suffer for us, did nobleness ever lie.
— Thomas CarlylePast and Present (1843)
Use itGS4: nobility lies in suffering for others, not making others suffer.
The more we come out and do good to others, the more our hearts will be purified, and God will be in them.
— Swami VivekanandaPearls of Wisdom
Use itGS4: doing good to others purifies one's own heart; service as self-improvement.
I insist that the object of all true education is not to make men carpenters, it is to make carpenters men.
— W. E. B. Du BoisThe Talented Tenth, published as the second chapter of The Negro Problem, a collection of articles by African Americans (New York: James Pot
Use itEssay on education's purpose; build character, not just skills.
I would permit no man, no matter what his colour might be, to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.
— Booker T. WashingtonChapter XI: Making Their Beds Before They Could Lie On Them
Use itLife/GS4: never let anyone degrade your soul into hatred.
All those who try to go it sole alone, Too proud to be beholden for relief, Are absolutely sure to come to grief.
— Robert Frost"Haec Fabula Docet"
Use itLife/GS4: pride that refuses help ends in grief; teamwork and accepting support matter.
It matters not how a man dies, but how he lives. The act of dying is not of importance, it lasts so short a time.
— Samuel Johnson(26 October 1769) p. 174
Use itEssay on meaningful life: how one lives matters, not how one dies.
Every great study is not only an end in itself, but also a means of creating and sustaining a lofty habit of mind.
— Bertrand RussellCh. 4: The Study of Mathematics
Use itEssay on education: great study builds a lofty habit of mind.
The man of virtue makes the difficulty to be overcome his first business, and success only a subsequent consideration.
— ConfuciusAnalects / Other chapters
Use itGS4/Life: tackle the hard task first; success follows as a by-product.
Great undertakings are always fraught with many obstacles. It is these obstacles which knock and shape great characters.
— Swami VivekanandaBrother disciples – Letters of Swami Vivekananda
Use itLife: obstacles in great undertakings shape great characters.
Those who conduct themselves with morality, integrity and consistency need not fear the forces of inhumanity and cruelty.
— Nelson MandelaNelson Mandela on integrity, At the British Red Cross Humanity Lecture, Queen Elizabeth Conference Centre, London, England (10 July 2003). S
Use itGS4: morality, integrity and consistency give fearlessness.
Don't say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonSocial Aims; sometimes condensed to "What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say."
Use itGS4: actions speak louder than words; character drowns out contrary claims.
Courage is a quality so necessary for maintaining virtue that it is always respected, even when it is associated with vice.
— Samuel Johnson(June 1784) p. 526
Use itGS4: courage as the virtue that sustains all others.
It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you'll do things differently.
— Warren BuffettAs quoted in Corporate Survival: The Critical Importance of Sustainability Risk Management (2005) by Dan Robert Anderson, p. 138
Use itGS4: reputation takes decades to build and minutes to ruin; act accordingly.
Without courage we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest.
— Maya AngelouAs quoted in USA Today (5 March 1988)
Use itGS4: courage as foundation of all virtues; open a case study on standing firm.
CourageCharacter & VirtueEssayGS4Interview
Prison itself is a tremendous education in the need for patience and perseverance. It is above all a test of one's commitment.
— Nelson MandelaLong Walk to Freedom (1995)
Use itLife: hardship as an education in patience and commitment.
To love truth for truth's sake is the principal part of human perfection in this world, and the seed-plot of all other virtues.
— John LockeLetter to Anthony Collins (29 October 1703)
Use itGS4: love of truth as the root of all other virtues.
True glory strikes root, and even extends itself; all false pretensions fall as do flowers, nor can anything feigned be lasting.
— Cicero
Use itGS4: genuine merit lasts, pretence fades; contrast reputation with character.
Admire the diamond that can bear the hits of a hammer. Many deceptive preachers, when critically examined, turn out to be false.
— KabirSakhi, 168; translation by Yashwant K. Malaiya based on that of Puran Sahib
Use itLife: true worth shows under pressure; character tested by hardship.
Remember that there is always a limit to self-indulgence but none to self-restraint, and let us daily progress in that direction.
— Mahatma GandhiArticle in Young India (2 February 1928, Volume 10, Page 35)
Use itGS4/Life: self-indulgence has limits, self-restraint has none—on discipline.
'Know thyself' was written over the portal of the antique world. Over the portal of the new world, 'Be thyself' shall be written.
— Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Use itLife/Essay: from 'know thyself' to 'be thyself' — authenticity.
We all know that a good example is more effective than advice. So set a good example, and it won't take long for others to follow.
— Anne Frank"Give!" (26 March 1944)
Use itGS4 leadership: lead by example, not advice.
Humility must always be the portion of any man who receives acclaim earned in blood of his followers and sacrifices of his friends.
— Dwight D. EisenhowerSpeech at Guildhall, London (12 June 1945)
Use itGS4: leaders must stay humble since success rests on followers' sacrifices.
Only that position can impart dignity in which we do not appear as servile tools but rather create independently within our circle.
— Karl MarxWritings of the Young Marx on Philosophy and Society, L. Easton, trans. (1967), p. 38
Use itEssay on dignity at work: autonomy and creativity, not servility.
This was one of the heaviest blows I can recall during the war....It was a bitter moment. Defeat is one thing; disgrace is another.
— Winston ChurchillThe Fall of Tobruk, 20 June 1942
Use itGS4: defeat is forgivable, disgrace is not.
Let me add, that only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations become corrupt and vicious, they have more need of masters.
— Benjamin Franklinletter to the Abbés Chalut and Arnaud (17 April 1787)
Use itEssay on ethics and democracy: only a virtuous people can sustain freedom.
Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: Every man I meet is my master at some point, and in that, I learn of him.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonGreatness
Use itInterview/Life: learn from everyone; each person is a teacher in some respect.
There is a price which is too great to pay for peace, and that price can be put in one word. One cannot pay the price of self-respect.
— Woodrow WilsonDes Moines Iowa speech (1 February 1916), on "The Westerm Preparedness Tour"
Use itGS2/Essay: peace cannot cost self-respect.
I often find myself going back to Darwin's saying about the duration of a man's friendships being one of the best measures of his worth.
— Charles Darwinfrom Records of Tennyson, Ruskin, Browning by Anne Thackeray Ritchie (Harper and Brothers, New York, 1893) page 170
Use itLife/Essay: lasting friendships reveal a person's true worth.
One is not a learned man by virtue of much speaking. He who is patient, without anger and fearless, he is to be called learned. (Verse 258)
Use itGS4/Interview: learning shows in patience and fearlessness, not much talking.
Whilst shame keeps its watch, virtue is not wholly extinguished in the heart; nor will moderation be utterly exiled from the minds of tyrants.
— Edmund BurkeReflections on the Revolution in France (1790)
Use itGS4: a sense of shame preserves virtue and restrains even tyrants.
Circus dogs jump when the trainer cracks his whip, but the really well-trained dog is the one that turns his somersault when there is no whip.
— George Orwell"As I Please," Tribune (7 July 1944)
Use itGS4: true integrity is doing right without supervision; internalised vs enforced ethics.
We are—proudly—a people with no sense of class or caste. We judge no man by his name or inheritance, but by what he does—and for what he stands.
— Dwight D. EisenhowerAddress at the Philadelphia Convention Hall (1956)
Use itGS1/Essay on caste and class: judge people by deeds, not name or inheritance.
Let none find fault with others; let none see the omissions and commissions of others. But let one see one’s own acts, done and undone. (Verse 50)
Use itGS4/Life: examine your own acts instead of finding fault with others.
Hard is it to be in the world, free, yet living the life of ordinary men; but because it is hard, therefore it must be attempted and accomplished.
— Sri AurobindoThoughts and Aphorisms (1913) / Jnana
Use itLife: the hardness of a worthy goal is the reason to attempt it.
The real test of a man is not how well he plays the role he has invented for himself, but how well he plays the role that destiny assigned to him.
— Václav HavelCh. 2 : Writing for the Stage, p. 72
Use itGS4: on rising to the role one is given; duty that destiny assigns.
Make your ego porous. Will is of little importance, complaining is nothing, fame is nothing. Openness, patience, receptivity, solitude is everything.
— Rainer Maria RilkeAs quoted in Sunbeams : A Book of Quotations (1990) by Sy Safransky, p. 42
Use itLife: drop ego and complaint; openness and patience matter more than fame.
No matter that we may mount on stilts, we still must walk on our own legs. And on the highest throne in the world, we still sit only on our own bottom.
Use itGS4: humility for those in power — on the highest throne we remain human.
A thing, moderately good, is not so good as it ought to be. Moderation in temper, is always a virtue; but moderation in principle, is a species of vice.
— Thomas PaineLetter to the Addressers (1792)
Use itGS4: moderation in temper is virtue; moderation in principle is vice.
Men do not care how nobly they live, but only how long, although it is within the reach of every man to live nobly, but within no man's power to live long.
Use itEssay: quality of life over length; living nobly is in everyone's power.
To be fond of learning is to be near to knowledge. To practice with vigor is to be near to magnanimity. To possess the feeling of shame is to be near to energy.
— ConfuciusThe Doctrine of the Mean
Use itGS4/Essay: love of learning, vigorous practice and sense of shame lead to virtue.
Not by birth does one become an outcaste, not by birth does one become a brahman. By one's action one becomes an outcaste, by one's action one becomes a brahman.
Use itGS1/Essay on caste: worth comes from conduct, not birth; Buddhist critique of caste hierarchy.
Virtue runs no risk of becoming contemptible by being exposed to view, and it is better to be despised for simplicity than to be tormented by continual hypocrisy.
— Seneca the YoungerOn Tranquility of the Mind
Use itGS4: simplicity and openness over the torment of hypocrisy.
But what is liberty without wisdom, and without virtue? It is the greatest of all possible evils; for it is folly, vice, and madness, without tuition or restraint.
— Edmund BurkeReflections on the Revolution in France (1790)
Use itEssay: liberty without wisdom and virtue becomes licence and folly.
If a traveller does not meet with one who is his better, or his equal, let him firmly keep to his solitary journey; there is no companionship with a fool. (Verse 61)
— DhammapadaTranslator: F. Max Müller
Use itLife: better to walk alone than in the company of fools.
There is nothing more visible than what is secret, and nothing more manifest than what is minute. Therefore the superior man is watchful over himself, when he is alone.
— ConfuciusThe Doctrine of the Mean
Use itGS4 on integrity: watch your conduct when alone; secrets eventually show.
A man does not become a Brahmana by his platted hair, by his family, or by birth; in whom there is truth and righteousness, he is blessed, he is a Brahmana. (Verse 393)
— DhammapadaTranslator: F. Max Müller
Use itGS1/Essay on caste: worth comes from truth and righteousness, not birth.
We are firm believers in the maxim that for all right judgment of any man or thing it is useful, nay, essential, to see his good qualities before pronouncing on his bad.
— Thomas CarlyleGoethe
Use itGS4 on fair judgement: see good qualities before judging the bad.
The sense of mercy is found in all men; the sense of shame is found in all men; the sense of respect is found in all men; the sense of right and wrong is found in all men.
Use itGS4: innate moral sense in all humans; Mencian goodness of human nature.
He maintained this attitude up to the very end, and no man ever saw Socrates too much elated or too much depressed. Amid all the disturbance of Fortune, he was undisturbed.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter CIV: On Care of Health and Peace of Mind
Use itGS4: equanimity (sthitaprajna) amid success and failure, as Socrates showed.
The happiness and unhappiness of the rational, social animal depends not on what he feels but on what he does; just as his virtue and vice consist not in feeling but in doing.
Use itGS4/Essay: virtue and happiness lie in action, not feeling.
We value virtue but do not discuss it. The honest bookkeeper, the faithful wife, the earnest scholar get little of our attention compared to the embezzler, the tramp, the cheat.
Use itGS4: society ignores quiet virtue while glamorising wrongdoers; celebrate honest officials.
Envy is a horrible thing. It is unlike all other kinds of suffering in that there is no disguising it, no elevating it into tragedy. It is more than merely painful, it is disgusting.
Use itGS4/Life: envy is uniquely corrosive; cultivate contentment and rejoice in others' success.
Sincerity is the end and beginning of things; without sincerity there would be nothing. On this account, the superior man regards the attainment of sincerity as the most excellent thing.
— ConfuciusThe Doctrine of the Mean
Use itGS4 on sincerity as the base of all virtue and action.
We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change.
— Mahatma GandhiFrom an article on dealing with snake bites, published in Indian Opinion dated August 9th, 1913, in the Gujarti language edition, English tr
Use itEssay: change begins within; transforming ourselves transforms the world.
He that would pass the latter part of life with honour and decency, must, when he is young, consider that he shall one day be old; and remember, when he is old, that he has once been young.
— Samuel JohnsonNo. 50 (8 September 1750); often misattributed to Joseph Addison
Use itEssay on intergenerational respect: young should plan for age, old remember youth.
The greatest danger, that of losing one's own self, may pass off as quietly as if it were nothing; every other loss, that of an arm, a leg, five dollars, a wife etc., is sure to be noticed.
— Søren KierkegaardThe Sickness unto Death (July 30, 1849)
Use itEssay on identity: losing oneself happens silently, unlike material losses.
For it was my master who taught me not only how very little I knew but also that any wisdom to which I might ever aspire could consist only in realizing more fully the infinity of my ignorance.
Use itInterview: humility in knowledge; wisdom is knowing how much you don't know.
There are as many perfections as there are imperfect men. And while to the claims of charity a man may yield and yet be free, to the claims of conformity no man may yield and remain free at all.
— Oscar WildeThe Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Use itEssay on conformity: yielding to conformity costs freedom.
It is not among extraordinary and fantastic things that excellence is to be found, of whatever kind it may be. We rise to attain it and become removed from it: it is oftenest necessary to stoop for it.
— Blaise PascalThe Art of Persuasion
Use itEssay on excellence: found not in the extraordinary but by stooping to the ordinary.
Someone despises me. That's their problem. Mine: not to do or say anything despicable. Someone hates me. Their problem. Mine: to be patient and cheerful with everyone, including them. (Hays translation)
Use itGS4: others' contempt is their problem; mine is to behave well and stay patient.
Resolve not to be poor: whatever you have, spend less. Poverty is a great enemy to human happiness; it certainly destroys liberty, and it makes some virtues impracticable, and others extremely difficult.
— Samuel JohnsonLetter to James Boswell, December 7, 1782, p. 494
Use itEssay on poverty: it destroys liberty and makes virtue difficult; spend less.
The basis of self-government and freedom requires the development of character and self-restraint and perseverance and the long view. And these are qualities which require many years of training and education.
— John F. KennedyAddress at the University of Washington
Use itEssay: democracy needs citizens with character, self-restraint and long-term vision.
Empathy is a quality of character that can change the world - one that makes you understand that your obligations to others extend beyond people who look like you and act like you and live in your neighborhood.
— Barack ObamaCommencement address at the University of Massachusetts Boston (June 2, 2006)
Use itGS4 definition of empathy: obligations extend beyond people like you.
It would be some consolation for the feebleness of our selves and our works, if all things should perish as slowly as they come into being; but as it is, increases are of sluggish growth, but the way to ruin is rapid.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter XCI: On the Lesson to be Drawn From the Burning of Lyons
Use itGS4: reputation and institutions build slowly but collapse fast.
The deepest thinking is humble. It is only concerned that the flame of truth which it keeps alive should burn with the strongest and purest heat; it does not trouble about the distance to which its brightness penetrates.
— Albert SchweitzerCh. XVI : Looking Backward and Forward, p. 257
Use itGS4/Essay on humility; true thinkers care for truth, not fame.
You may never be able to come back to the place you have left, nor can you undo the wrongs that you have done. But you can always begin again. You can cleanse the heart, you can remake your life, you can rebuild character.
— Mahatma GandhiHarijan, 7 January 1939, in The Collected Works of Mahatma Gandhi, Vol. 68, p. 6
Use itLife: you can always begin again and rebuild character after mistakes.
A recurrent theme of this book is that luck plays a large role in every story of success; it is almost always easy to identify a small change in the story that would have turned a remarkable achievement into a mediocre outcome.
— Daniel KahnemanIntroduction, p. 9
Use itEssay on meritocracy; luck shapes success, so practise humility.
Do you ask me whom I have conquered? Neither the Persians, nor the far-off Medes, nor any warlike race that lies beyond the Dahae; not these, but greed, ambition, and the fear of death that has conquered the conquerors of the world.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter LXXI: On the supreme good
Use itGS4: conquering greed, ambition and fear as the greatest victory.
Wise command, wise obedience: the capability of these two is the net measure of culture, and human virtue, in every man; all good lies in the possession of these two capabilities; all evil, wretchedness and ill-success in the want of these.
— Thomas CarlyleLatter-Day Pamphlets (1850) / The New Downing Street (April 15, 1850)
Use itGS4 on organisational ethics: wise command and wise obedience measure virtue.
Every really able man, in whatever direction he work,—a man of large affairs, an inventor, a statesman, an orator, a poet, a painter,—if you talk sincerely with him, considers his work, however much admired, as far short of what it should be.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonImmortality
Use itInterview: truly able people always see their work as falling short—humility drives excellence.
Neither a borrower nor a lender be; For loan oft loses both itself and friend, And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry. This above all: to thine ownself be true. And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.
— William ShakespearePolonius, Act I, scene iii
Use itGS4: being true to oneself as the root of honesty with others.
They have been spoken by Plato, spoken by Zeno, spoken by Chrysippus or by Posidonius, and by a whole host of Stoics as numerous as excellent. I shall show you how men can prove their words to be their own: it is by doing what they have been talking about.
— Seneca the YoungerEpistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius) / Letter CVIII: On the Approaches to Philosophy
Use itGS4: words become yours only by acting on them; walk the talk.
We are our own slaves, not of the British. This should be engraved on our minds. The whites cannot remain if we do not want them. If the idea is to drive them out with firearms, let every Indian consider what precious little profit Europe has found in these.
— Mahatma GandhiIntroduction to the publication of Tolstoy's A Letter to a Hindu, Indian opinion, 25 December, (1909)
Use itEssay on self-reliance; real slavery is internal—freedom begins in our own minds.
My policies are based not on some economics theory, but on things I and millions like me were brought up with: an honest day's work for an honest day's pay; live within your means; put by a nest egg for a rainy day; pay your bills on time; support the police.
— Margaret ThatcherNews of the World (20 September 1981), quoted in Chris Ogden, Maggie: An Intimate Portrait of a Woman in Power (New York: Simon and Schuster
Use itGS3/Life on fiscal discipline: honest work, live within means, save for a rainy day.
Life is a difficult game. You can win it only by retaining your birthright to be a person. And to retain this right, you will have to be willing to take the social or external risks involved in ignoring pressures to do things the way others say they should be done.
Use itGS4 on moral courage; resisting conformity and peer pressure to stay true to oneself.
Prejudice is not a failing peculiar to one race, it can and does exist in people of every race and ethnic background. It takes individual effort to root it out of one's heart. In my case my father and mother saw that it never got a start. I shall be forever grateful to them.
— Ronald ReaganAs quoted in "Ronald Reagan and Race" (August 2019), by Jay Nordlinger, National Review
Use itGS1/GS4: prejudice is universal; role of family socialisation in rooting out bias.
I really wanted to retire and rest and spend more time with my children, my grandchildren and of course with my wife. But the problems are such that for anybody with a conscience who can use whatever influence he may have to try to bring about peace, it's difficult to say no.
— Nelson MandelaOn why he continues to be active in social and political issues
Use itGS4: conscience compels service even when one wishes to rest.
Not to feel exasperated, or defeated, or despondent because your days aren't packed with wise and moral actions. But to get back up when you fail, to celebrate behaving like a human--however imperfectly--and fully embrace the pursuit that you've embarked on. (Hays translation)
— Marcus AureliusFlinch not, neither give up nor despair, if the achieving of every act in accordance with right principle is not always continuous with thee
Use itLife: don't despair at imperfection—get back up when you fail.
The object of presenting medals, stars, and ribbons is to give pride and pleasure to those who have deserved them. At the same time a distinction is something which everybody does not possess. If all have it it is of less value ... A medal glitters, but it also casts a shadow.
— Winston ChurchillSpeech in the House of Commons, March 22, 1944 "War Decorations"
Use itGS4: awards motivate but lose value if universal; incentives cast shadows.
Our colleges ought to have lit up in us a lasting relish for the better kind of man, a loss of appetite for mediocrities, and a disgust for cheapjacks. We ought to smell, as it were, the difference of quality in men and their proposals when we enter the world of affairs about us.
— William JamesThe Social Value of the College-Bred
Use itEssay on higher education; it should breed taste for quality and disgust for mediocrity.
Use the atman to raise the atman. Do not lower the atman. The atman is the atman’s friend and the atman is the atman’s enemy. The atman, which has been used to conquer the atman, is the atman’s friend. For someone who has failed to control the atman, the atman harms like an enemy.
— Bhagavad GitaKrishna; Chapter 6, verses 5–6; Bibek Debroy translation
Use itGS4 on self-mastery: the self is its own friend or enemy.
There is a scale of virtues, and it is necessary, if one would mount the higher steps, to begin with the lowest; and the first virtue a man must acquire if he wishes to acquire the others, is that which the ancients called ἐγκράτεια or σωφροσύνη — i.e., self-control or moderation.
— Leo TolstoyCh. VIII
Use itGS4: self-control as the first and foundational virtue.
You cannot hope to build a better world without improving the individuals. To that end each of us must work for his own improvement, and at the same time share a general responsibility for all humanity, our particular duty being to aid those to whom we think we can be most useful.
— Marie CuriePierre Curie (1923), as translated by Charlotte Kellogg and Vernon Lyman Kellogg, p. 168
Use itGS4/Essay: better world needs better individuals plus shared responsibility for humanity.
He sees as well as you do that courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point, which means, at the point of highest reality. A chastity or honesty, or mercy, which yields to danger will be chaste or honest or merciful only on conditions.
— C. S. LewisLetter XXIX
Use itGS4 definition of courage: the form of every virtue at its testing point.
Wise men don't need to prove their point; men who need to prove their point aren't wise. The Master has no possessions. The more he does for others, the happier he is. The more he gives to others, the wealthier he is. The Tao nourishes by not forcing. By not dominating, the Master leads.
— Laoziinterpreted by Stephen Mitchell (1992)
Use itGS4: servant leadership; leading by giving, not dominating.
It's not hard to stand behind one's successes. But to accept responsibility for one's failures... that is devishly hard! But only thence does the road lead... to a radically new insight into the mysterious gravity of my existence as an uncertain enterprise and to its transcendental meaning.
— Václav HavelAs quoted in "Václav Havel: Heir to a Spiritual Legacy" by Richard L. Stanger in Christian Century (11 April 1990)
Use itGS4: on owning failures; accountability for failure is harder than claiming success.
Some people, when they do someone a favor, are always looking for a chance to call it in. And some aren't, but they're still aware of it--still regard it as a debt. But others don't even do that. They're like a vine that produces grapes without looking for anything in return. (Hays translation)
— Marcus AureliusA man makes no noise over a good deed, but passes on to another as a vine to bear grapes again in season
Use itGS4 on altruism; do good like a vine bears grapes, expecting nothing back.
Any one who in discussion relies upon authority uses, not his understanding, but rather his memory. Good culture is born of a good disposition; and since the cause is more to be praised than the effect, I will rather praise a good disposition without culture, than good culture without the disposition.
— Leonardo da VinciThe Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci (1883) / XIX Philosophical Maxims. Morals. Polemics and Speculations
Use itEssay on critical thinking; relying on authority uses memory, not understanding.
Self-made men are the men who, under peculiar difficulties and without the ordinary helps of favoring circumstances, have attained knowledge, usefulness, power and position and have learned from themselves the best uses to which life can be put in this world, and in the exercises of these uses to build up worthy character.
— Frederick DouglassSelf-Made Men (1872)
Use itInterview/Essay: rising through adversity without privilege builds knowledge and worthy character.

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